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So we head home and my girl bf starts crying cause she thinks she's a horrible friend for getting me drunk (which I reassured her that she wasn't and to cheer up). M is still being Mr. Angry and my other guy bf who shall be called C appeared to be indifferent but I'm sure he was irritated even though he tried to hide it. So we miss my last bus (by seconds... we saw it leave us behind) so we had to take a different bus and walk me quite a distance... and to be honest, I was being grumpy and a total brat even though C and girl bf was trying their hardest to get me to eat disgusting bread and water so I wouldn't be so sick. I ended up spilling some personal things that I hadn't wanted to say and just felt miserable with them around me. To be honest, I really just wanted to walk home by myself without them around me. But being the stubborn friends they are, they walked me to my door.

Anyways, I sent apology text messages later that night once I calmed down a bit. Then the next day I tried to message them on msn/text message/facebook/call them to properly apologize about the whole event but M only replied with a "bye" and then proceeded to downright ignore me. C and my girl bf have also been ignoring me and not responding to anything no matter what I try. I don't know where I went wrong and why they're upset. I'm thinking they're mad that I was being a complete brat when I was drunk and being difficult... but I'm trying to apologize for that.

Additionally, I don't understand why M would get upset that I was reconnecting with an old friend and someone that I kind of like romantically. I'm also thinking that my girl bf might be upset over the fact that I haven't really told her that I'm starting to like this guy but I didn't think she would be that like because it's nothing serious yet... =/ I hope she's not avoiding because she still feels guilty about the whole getting me drunk thing... And then C... I have no idea why he'd be upset other than the fact I was being difficult (understatement) in my drunken state.

What are your thoughts? Where did I go wrong? Should I keep trying to reach them or given them some time and space? I just feel so powerless at the moment. Like anything I do or try isn't reaching them and it's a bit frustrating. =/

Sorry about it being so long ^^;; but thanks for listening to my long story/venting. ^__^

[nerrin]

Thank you for what you've said about my posts, I'm really glad you enjoy reading them! :)

Well, from what you told me either M has friend-issues (aka being selfish with his friends) or that he can see that you're reconnecting with this other guy and he's jealous, because he likes you. Really typical answers, I'm sorry, but it does seem that way to me.

Maybe you should give them just a little bit of time to cool down, then text all of them to address all the problems you've caused or raised while drunk - like reassuring your girl bf that she IS a good friend to you and that you treasure her a lot, etc. If there's a chance to, talk to them in person and apologize to them in person rather than through the internet or any other form of media. Telling someone that you're really sorry face to face usually works extremely well, and if the other person has a problem with you, you can also ask them exactly what annoyed them and apologize for that, too.

I really hope you make up with all three of them, and I'm sorry I'm not able to help more. :(

[anonymous]

Well, I've worked things out with my girl bf and C. They were actually concerned about me and my girl bf was avoiding me cause she thought I hated her for buying me so many drinks. lol.. so things are peachy between us now. =)

M is still being an idiot and won't talk to me even though I've given him a week to cool off. Well, he has to talk to me sooner or later. If not, well something will have to be done to solve this.

And thanks for the encouragement and the pieces of advice. =) I really just needed someone to vent to. Thanks for listening. ^_^