I don't know what to do...
I have been in what I thought was a perfect and loving relationship for the last 8 years. We have been married for three years and our little girl is 2.
We began having problems about 7 months ago. I actually caught him talking to an ex. He told her that he loved her and felt like a single parent. I work long hours and he takes care of the little one most of the time. He said he didn't mean it and he wasn't in the right head space at the time.
So, we've gone to therapy.. but he told me that he wants to get attention from other people. I don't know what that means. I don't know if I even want to know. He never wears his ring, he never tells me he loves me. We don't get close to each other because I work with Covid patients and I don't want to risk it. I wear a mask all of the time, so we don't kiss but he doesn't even hold my hand.
I really, really want this to work but I don't know how. I don't want my baby to grow up in a split house. I also still love him so much it breaks my heart. I just don't know what to do anymore.