Round 2
I'm posting this as a pubic journal, just like the last one. Everyone already knew shit was bad. If I wasn't talking about it with them, than I know you were happy to. So, Amber, I'm putting round 2 up here for everyone to view, because I don't care. What I say, anyone can know. Sometimes I don't always want everyone to know, but I am still
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Becky:
I haven't been able to give you my opinion on you and amber. So here is something that goes against the curve a little bit from what other people have said. Amber does have friends, so I really don't think she uses you. I have many great times with her, and yea sometimes she is sad and she needs a friend to talk to and that's ok cause we all get like that sometimes. Even you. THough I know you are a little like me in the sense of not liking to deal with things, just move on and forget about it. But I honestly don't forget, just like I'm sure everyone knows and realizes, and you are like that a little too. Yes, you are unreliable, and maybe amber is just now realizing that. Though you are unreliable that doesn't mean you don't care. You are an honest person, and will give the truth, whether we want to hear it or not. And that is something amber appreciates about you I'm sure cause she appreciates the truth from everyone. Just like you say to amber to not assume, you can't assume either. She has always been happy for you. And if she is sad about brett maybe she is scared because of the way things ended last time, and she wants so much to believe in it. She is living, she's working, going out at night, and I think right now she needs her closest friends; maybe that is why she hasn't gotten out more. Why does this have to be an issue at all? I understand that you guys both have long distance "relationships" but that should help you guys sympathize with eachother more. Half of the stuff of amber getting sad about (atleast from what she says to me) has nothing to do with the distance with brett, it's mostly about getting out, and having fun with you again. Maybe you guys should sit down together and fight like before cause it worked for a moment didn't it? And the thing with stina, you have admitted a dozen times how the reason you lost stina was because you were too dumb to let her live her own life, and you fought with her constantly when things ended up working out ok right? You may not like the situation amber has with brett but she has to deal with it. YOu guys deal with things so much differently. YOu both want to be there fore eachother, but amber always feels there is more, and you can be hurtfully honest. If amber is sad, then it's ok to be around sometimes and go out with her to cheer her up some, cause that's what friends do do. That's half of how I stopped crying over scott, cause she took me out every damn night even if I didn't want to. It wouldn't hurt you to be a little more there, but you can't look at it like a crutch that she uses you for. It is a friend thing to be there. And yea you deal with it differently, but sometimes the best thing is to get out of your shell and realize what would be best for amber, as in talking is something she likes doing, and she wants to be able to talk to her friends, but there has to be actual talking, and listening ya know? She is different from you.
Amber:
You have been a lot more emotional lately, and maybe that is because you haven't had people to talk to, and I try, I really honestly do. I can see how it hurts beck when you say it's cause we're not there, but how do we know unless you tell us? YOu admitted it to me yesterday that once someone does something against you are just about immediately turned off to them. What ends up happening is you will find a million bs reasons to be mad because of something stupid that started it.
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