And on a much more bright note (from our ever luckless sista), I picked this up today :
This, plus the dress... I feel like everything is becoming so much more lively and realistic. I'm really not even sure how to go about planning this.. I want it to be creative, special and unique. Not the same mechanical style that so many people seem to choose. I'm wondering if I should go with something cultural and fun.. a blackanese wedding(?) lol!! Of course it might be a little odd since I'm marrying a random white guy. ;;;;;;;;