Waving to angels

[nebulawindphone]

C and I both have some complicated mental health issues, and C also has chronic pain and fatigue and some minor-but-real problems with mobility. As a result, our relationship is pretty balanced when it comes to things like "How much emotional support do you give?" and "How much input do you get into decisions?", but it's often way out of balance on

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[nebulawindphone]

Yeah, pretty much everything about this resonates with me, although the details are different. "Pressure to feel like we're being cheated" is a great way to put it.