that's what i say (hey hey hey hey)
it was sam who pointed out to me, i believe, how in debates, the best things to say are points-of-views, because no one can turn them down - their opinions. thinking now, about the past few weeks, i come to realize that this is most certainly true; although, not that i never thought it before - i just never took the time to understood exactly.
and then, through a capp conversation, it was made clear that whatever someone feels, is exactly that. they feel it for some reason, and no matter if no one else can understand, that's what it is, so people have to work around that.
so now i see: that you have to respect what everyone feels, even if it is so incredibly unclear to you. but there's a reason for everything, and this fact is not an exception.
i try to understand with everybody, but, being the "optimist", all i want is people to see things the happy and nice way. don't get me wrong, i still am not 'little miss happy' and no one expects that of me anyways i know.
well, i don't know i suppose. how great is that statement? i just want to understand people so i can help them, but i suppose, it's cases like this where there is nothing i can do except welcome it whenever it comes by again.
is that all i can do? i need to learn to show my 'welcomeness' more i believe, just as how my apology area has a weakness. .. except to some people: my apologies come quite quickly, but they are nothing i should apologize for. i notice i have not apologized to you recently, the person who gets them out of me the quickest. shall we talk? i don't want to apologize though.
and is everyone most completely confused now? i think it is a mixture of people and things of which i speak upon at this moment.
i'm going to take these next moments as they come for a bit.. but i'm sure an 'action plan' will be needed soon. cause where do i stand now?
ahh, but now my hands are going numb.. i'm signing off now
and then, through a capp conversation, it was made clear that whatever someone feels, is exactly that. they feel it for some reason, and no matter if no one else can understand, that's what it is, so people have to work around that.
so now i see: that you have to respect what everyone feels, even if it is so incredibly unclear to you. but there's a reason for everything, and this fact is not an exception.
i try to understand with everybody, but, being the "optimist", all i want is people to see things the happy and nice way. don't get me wrong, i still am not 'little miss happy' and no one expects that of me anyways i know.
well, i don't know i suppose. how great is that statement? i just want to understand people so i can help them, but i suppose, it's cases like this where there is nothing i can do except welcome it whenever it comes by again.
is that all i can do? i need to learn to show my 'welcomeness' more i believe, just as how my apology area has a weakness. .. except to some people: my apologies come quite quickly, but they are nothing i should apologize for. i notice i have not apologized to you recently, the person who gets them out of me the quickest. shall we talk? i don't want to apologize though.
and is everyone most completely confused now? i think it is a mixture of people and things of which i speak upon at this moment.
i'm going to take these next moments as they come for a bit.. but i'm sure an 'action plan' will be needed soon. cause where do i stand now?
ahh, but now my hands are going numb.. i'm signing off now