Finally, in all this Jessica Simpson, Kate Moss, Britney Spears, Sex and the City, Desperate Housewives mess of what equals the ideal woman in 2005, a voice of reason. Check out Maureen Dowd's article "What's a Modern Girl to Do," in the NY Times. She may not have the answers, but at least she's bothering to ask the right questions.
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/10/30/magazine/30feminism.html?pagewanted=1&8dpc What's it mean to be a feminist to you?