Betrayal and intent
So Kelly and I have talked.
Regardless of my own mistakes (not trusting the relationship/understanding that Kelly and I have developed enough to tell her about things) I am still left feeling exceedingly betrayed.
It turns out that one of you, the 24 people on my friends list, took it upon themselves to email Kelly some screenshots of my recent (protected) entries.
So how am I supposed to feel? What am I supposed to do? My initial reaction was to remove myself from the land of livejournal. You win. But it bothers me that one of you on my friends list does not respect me enough, or the trust I give to you when writing in my journal, to keep the things I choose to keep as such... private. Regardless of whether you think it's right or not.
So. I still don't know what I'm supposed to do. Unless this person comes forward, I have no way of knowing which of you it was. Livejournal has always entailed a certain amount of faith and trust but at this point, I don't feel comfortable writing about anything more than the weather or what I ate for breakfast. How can I share my personal life with people that can't be trusted with such information?
Go one step above friends only and just make my journal private? Sure. That's an option. But what's the point of having 'friends' to my journal if nobody can read it.
Regardless of my own mistakes (not trusting the relationship/understanding that Kelly and I have developed enough to tell her about things) I am still left feeling exceedingly betrayed.
It turns out that one of you, the 24 people on my friends list, took it upon themselves to email Kelly some screenshots of my recent (protected) entries.
So how am I supposed to feel? What am I supposed to do? My initial reaction was to remove myself from the land of livejournal. You win. But it bothers me that one of you on my friends list does not respect me enough, or the trust I give to you when writing in my journal, to keep the things I choose to keep as such... private. Regardless of whether you think it's right or not.
So. I still don't know what I'm supposed to do. Unless this person comes forward, I have no way of knowing which of you it was. Livejournal has always entailed a certain amount of faith and trust but at this point, I don't feel comfortable writing about anything more than the weather or what I ate for breakfast. How can I share my personal life with people that can't be trusted with such information?
Go one step above friends only and just make my journal private? Sure. That's an option. But what's the point of having 'friends' to my journal if nobody can read it.