getting married
so it seems that people are getting married at a younger age today... why?
i do understand that the idea that u hv met the perfect guy/girl in ur life is wonderful,but getting married requires a lot of efforts that 20-something are not able to take care of.
was it nick and jessicas fault when they introduced the concept that by marriying each other their life just got better or is it the idea that everyone who we grew up watching in tv is now getting married and having kids and we want that for ourselves?
in the end we all just want to hang on to something and even though marriage may seem to fix the problems by taking the relationship to a whole new level i think that there are many steps to be taken before making that decision.
such steps are trust and being faithful, if u cant not cheat now u will not stop cheating when u are married. u dont want to look back years from now and see that ur marriage was a big fucked up mistake.
yeah it is anoying when u hv the person of ur dreams in front of u and ur scared that u will lose him/her but is marriage really a solution? there are soo many ways to upgrate the commitment in a relationship like move in together or just hv fun dating each other, let the trust grow and the love grow so then when u are ready it will be a perfect moment.
think about it kids
love nat
i do understand that the idea that u hv met the perfect guy/girl in ur life is wonderful,but getting married requires a lot of efforts that 20-something are not able to take care of.
was it nick and jessicas fault when they introduced the concept that by marriying each other their life just got better or is it the idea that everyone who we grew up watching in tv is now getting married and having kids and we want that for ourselves?
in the end we all just want to hang on to something and even though marriage may seem to fix the problems by taking the relationship to a whole new level i think that there are many steps to be taken before making that decision.
such steps are trust and being faithful, if u cant not cheat now u will not stop cheating when u are married. u dont want to look back years from now and see that ur marriage was a big fucked up mistake.
yeah it is anoying when u hv the person of ur dreams in front of u and ur scared that u will lose him/her but is marriage really a solution? there are soo many ways to upgrate the commitment in a relationship like move in together or just hv fun dating each other, let the trust grow and the love grow so then when u are ready it will be a perfect moment.
think about it kids
love nat