More venting

[nassir]

There's still one thing that really has my boxers in a knot right now. I had, in no uncertain terms, both while we were dating and after we broke up, told Michelle my take on her concept of what I consider a feudal type marriage (albeit for business not political purposes) and that I had at least enough respect for myself that I would be no one's

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[kyouchou242]

It seems to me that this is a maturity issue, and, unfortunately, of a nature that is not easy to spot until it's too late. Someone with a mature concept of inter-personal relationships, of any and all kinds, knows damn well that you cannot act selfishly and not hurt someone in the process.

I can believe that she honestly didn't mean (deliberately intend) to hurt you. The problem is that she didn't mean to be good to you either, she meant to be good to herself, and failed to realize that that can't ever be enough.

Maybe you've already decided this, but I would say it might be best to never (NEVER EVER) talk to her again. She can't offer you any explanations or comfort. Time to utterly turn your back on her and walk away. You're worth more than that, you're better than her, and it's her tough shit that she can't see that.

I'm not trying to make light of your pain and rage, I'm just saying that staying in contact with her isn't going to help you any.

When I become God I'll make the PERFECT woman for you. Well, ok, I probably (certainly) will never become God, and I wouldn't know what the perfect woman for you would be anyways, but it's the thought that counts, isn't it?