Yet Again...
The button my mom gave me years ago comes to mind: There's one in every croud and they always find me.
Yes, I decided to help out one of "those" people recently.
What do I mean by "those"?
Let's see... someone who loses their home, comes and crashes at your place, then loses their job, eats your food (which they can't cook on their own), uses your shampoo and bodywash, lazes around on your couch watching your cable while you go about your normal daily routine, doesn't even LOOK for a job, then they start talking to you like they think you're below normal intelligence, yells at you when they disagree with you, uses your computer to bitch online about things you do, and then turns around and tells you that you are all the things they are doing to you right now, i.e. a lazy user who has nothing to be proud of since you haven't earned anything.
Talk about transference.
And then they get pissed off at you because you tell them to leave your home due to their hostility?
And they call you stupid?
At least it was only 3 weeks worth of my time and no more.
Yes, I decided to help out one of "those" people recently.
What do I mean by "those"?
Let's see... someone who loses their home, comes and crashes at your place, then loses their job, eats your food (which they can't cook on their own), uses your shampoo and bodywash, lazes around on your couch watching your cable while you go about your normal daily routine, doesn't even LOOK for a job, then they start talking to you like they think you're below normal intelligence, yells at you when they disagree with you, uses your computer to bitch online about things you do, and then turns around and tells you that you are all the things they are doing to you right now, i.e. a lazy user who has nothing to be proud of since you haven't earned anything.
Talk about transference.
And then they get pissed off at you because you tell them to leave your home due to their hostility?
And they call you stupid?
At least it was only 3 weeks worth of my time and no more.