Roommate
I consider myself a fairly easy to live with person. I don't do the dishes for a few days sometimes but in general I clean up after myself and don't leave messes in the common areas, I feed my roommate's cat when she's away, and I even end up cleaning up after her sometimes. And I'm really tolerant about her bringing people over. We started with the agreement that whenever she was going to have people over, boyfriend or friends, she would tell me in advance. Now, however, they just come whenever. And you know, fine, whatever it's not like they're getting drunk and having parties here or anything. The one thing I CANNOT stand anymore is that her and her boyfriend have sex....while I'm still here. Routinely. Like almost every night he's here. Given he's not here every night and he's not even here a night every week but I mean come on, how gross is that for me? I never hear anything but I KNOW what's happening. One time I came home and they were either having sex with the door open or they'd just had sex/were about to and the door was open. I didn't even know what to say because what the fuck?! She tried to say she didn't know I'd be home when I clearly said when I left that morning that I would be back around that time. It's ridiculous and I'm really starting to get sick of it. I feel like I have to stay in my room because I really don't want to know what's happening in there. If there was a nice way to tell her about this and solve it I would but I can't think of anything. *sigh*