boys are now apparently bad for me
ok so in caspers eyes i'm not allowed to have guy friends. Girls are perfectly ok. But half the time I would rather hang out with guys and be one of the guys now one of hte girls. one more fight and its over. I can't take it anymore in his mind he does all the work....he doesn't see it from my point of view. We had two fights tonight. One about me wanting to go out with a friend to go drinking and dancing but he bitched about me not taking him...I don't need him with me everywhere i go. The other fight was about me not doing anything in this relationship. I do a lot of things and he doesn't notice half the time what i do. I make him cookies and dinner when he's over. I drop my schedule just to make him happy. I could have had plans that day but he wouldn't ask. Is it too much to ask that he just stop being self centered and look around. He claims he doesn't want anything in life no goals nothing. I have goals. He doesn't understand that they are important to me. he probably thinks that my attention should be around him and only him. So guys i'm sorry but he is wrong. I will have guy friends and I will hang out with them. Much to his misliking. Please feel free to offer any advice you think may be helpful.