That family is full of lies and deceit
I was only going to write about what I was told went on today with my husband and “David” but I’ve changed my mind a little since I checked my private messages just a moment ago. I was a little surprised to see a message from my husbands Uncle. Little did I know it was a Private message I wouldn’t want to open. Here’s what he wrote to me:
“just trying to figure out who is the sloppy mouth trashy whore in here....oh...and the red headed step child?”
I was a little taken back by the message at first. I wasn’t sure to be offended or surprised at his lack of writing ability. Not to mention I wasn’t sure what he was meaning by “red headed step child” Nonetheless I’m offended. I think this might be the first time I’ve been called a whore by anyone in my husbands family. I could be wrong though, I could just be forgetting being called that in the past. But this man, Glen, barely knows me. He met me once, and he was drunk/drinking when he met me. I can’t believe this man would say such a mean, terrible thing to me based off of things that Teresa has said to Diane, then Diane has said to Glen. Unless Teresa bypassed Diane and went straight to Glen.
((For those of you who don’t know:
Teresa-- Mother-in-law
Diane-- Teresa’s Sister
Glen-- Diane’s Husband))
I guess I just can’t get over the shock of everything. Glen doesn’t know me very well and he can still say such a thing. I guess that family hates all the same people. I don’t know of anyone in that family that likes me. And not all of them have met me, or been around me long enough to have a decent opinion about me and they all hate me based off hearsay and lies.
Well, onto what I was going to write about. My husband called me today and let me know that “David” showed up at A-school to talk to him. I believe he went up there after he read my husbands blog and got worried. Anyway, “David” showed up to speak to my husband about everything that’s gone on. “David” flat out, blatantly lied to my husband. He told Jon that when he called Sunday and said “Dad…” He didn’t recognize his own son’s voice and thought it was someone calling about the truck that he is trying to sell. I’m sorry but if you don’t recognize your own son’s voice you have issues. Not to mention I would’ve asked who it was if I didn’t recognize the voice and the person on the other line called me “Dad”.
Seriously… that lie sucks and couldn’t possibly have any truth in it. Other then maybe the fact that his truck might be for sale. Anyway, he lied to my husband to try and win him back over. He’s afraid of loosing his son, I guess. And he knows that Jon, my husband is impressionable so of course he knows what words to use to make Jon hang on every last word. So when I spoke to Jon I was so upset because I can’t forgive “David” for what he did/said and I was even more pissed off that “David” said what he did and made Jon believe/want to believe him and then want to forgive him for what happened.
Perhaps I’m just not as easy to forgive that family because just about every single person has said or done something to hurt me. Then when they did something to hurt Jon like that, I just couldn’t take it anymore. I was so pissed off. I just wanted them to all go away and never come back. I mean I wish they were illegal aliens so I could have them deported. Anything so I wouldn’t have to deal with them. They all suck. And I wish my husband could see just how bad they are. They’re terrible people and I wish we keep them from doing such things.
I do hate to even think that Jon may have to give up on his family. I can’t imagine how hard it would be, but I really think that distancing ourselves from them would make the stress on Jon and myself and our marriage would go away. I just wish things like this could be easy, hell I wish they didn’t exist and I wish all people could be nice and all families could get along…. Unfortunately life just isn’t that simple and not everyone is going to like you.
*sigh*
“just trying to figure out who is the sloppy mouth trashy whore in here....oh...and the red headed step child?”
I was a little taken back by the message at first. I wasn’t sure to be offended or surprised at his lack of writing ability. Not to mention I wasn’t sure what he was meaning by “red headed step child” Nonetheless I’m offended. I think this might be the first time I’ve been called a whore by anyone in my husbands family. I could be wrong though, I could just be forgetting being called that in the past. But this man, Glen, barely knows me. He met me once, and he was drunk/drinking when he met me. I can’t believe this man would say such a mean, terrible thing to me based off of things that Teresa has said to Diane, then Diane has said to Glen. Unless Teresa bypassed Diane and went straight to Glen.
((For those of you who don’t know:
Teresa-- Mother-in-law
Diane-- Teresa’s Sister
Glen-- Diane’s Husband))
I guess I just can’t get over the shock of everything. Glen doesn’t know me very well and he can still say such a thing. I guess that family hates all the same people. I don’t know of anyone in that family that likes me. And not all of them have met me, or been around me long enough to have a decent opinion about me and they all hate me based off hearsay and lies.
Well, onto what I was going to write about. My husband called me today and let me know that “David” showed up at A-school to talk to him. I believe he went up there after he read my husbands blog and got worried. Anyway, “David” showed up to speak to my husband about everything that’s gone on. “David” flat out, blatantly lied to my husband. He told Jon that when he called Sunday and said “Dad…” He didn’t recognize his own son’s voice and thought it was someone calling about the truck that he is trying to sell. I’m sorry but if you don’t recognize your own son’s voice you have issues. Not to mention I would’ve asked who it was if I didn’t recognize the voice and the person on the other line called me “Dad”.
Seriously… that lie sucks and couldn’t possibly have any truth in it. Other then maybe the fact that his truck might be for sale. Anyway, he lied to my husband to try and win him back over. He’s afraid of loosing his son, I guess. And he knows that Jon, my husband is impressionable so of course he knows what words to use to make Jon hang on every last word. So when I spoke to Jon I was so upset because I can’t forgive “David” for what he did/said and I was even more pissed off that “David” said what he did and made Jon believe/want to believe him and then want to forgive him for what happened.
Perhaps I’m just not as easy to forgive that family because just about every single person has said or done something to hurt me. Then when they did something to hurt Jon like that, I just couldn’t take it anymore. I was so pissed off. I just wanted them to all go away and never come back. I mean I wish they were illegal aliens so I could have them deported. Anything so I wouldn’t have to deal with them. They all suck. And I wish my husband could see just how bad they are. They’re terrible people and I wish we keep them from doing such things.
I do hate to even think that Jon may have to give up on his family. I can’t imagine how hard it would be, but I really think that distancing ourselves from them would make the stress on Jon and myself and our marriage would go away. I just wish things like this could be easy, hell I wish they didn’t exist and I wish all people could be nice and all families could get along…. Unfortunately life just isn’t that simple and not everyone is going to like you.
*sigh*