Can I trade in my In-laws for new ones that don't suck?
Some days I realize just how much I hate my In-laws. Today was one of those days.
Back when my husband Jon, started A-school we had talked about his A-School Graduation. We talked about who would pin his crows on him and who was coming. We touched on the subject of his father coming, briefly. Jon then decided that he would make himself a dead-line. The day he chose would be the day he “Had” to have a decision made and he needed to have called his father by that day to tell him what he decided. Jon chose November 19th, five weeks after he started school and about five weeks before Graduation.
Today I finally asked my husband if he had come to any conclusion on what he wanted to do. He told me that he really wanted his father to attend, but that there was no room for any other family members to attend, also. Either way his mother and myself are not getting along and I didn’t want her there, nor his sister or grandmother. They’re all bitches in a bad way. Anyway, more so to the point. I then told my husband that he should call his father and let him know that he wanted him to come, and let him know when and where to go.
Jon wasted no time in calling him. He called his cell phone and when his father answered Jon said “Dad..” which was followed by his father saying “There is no Dad here, I’m David” or something very close to that. My husband continued the conversation with his father even though that was said. When I came into the room and asked him how it went, my husband was hurt and started crying for a few minutes. What type of father says such a thing to their son? That was so mean! Not to mention my husband has no idea why his father said such a thing.
Jon has done absolutely nothing to his father, so myself and the rest of my family are stumped. I know that I have issues with my in-laws and it affects my husband directly because he’s constantly having to defend me when ever they say something terrible. But I can’t imagine that being the cause of what was said. That damn family just confuses me! I wish I could send them to some special school where they come out normal… Instead of fucked up until no end.
I hope that my husband isn’t completely hurt by this. I know that he was hurt today, but after he talked to my Dad about what David had said, he seemed to feel a little better. And God forbid this whole issue fuck with Jon’s concentration and productivity at school. I’ll be so fucking pissed at that family, especially David because he’s a Retired Navy Officer ((I believe)) and he should know better then cause such drama while his son is trying to focus on school! God he pisses me off, just like his wife.
After everything that went on today and having to see my husband the way he was I wanted to call his father back and tell him he wasn’t allowed to attend the Graduation and that I would personally make sure he was escorted off the base if he ever stepped foot on it while the ceremony was going on. But my Dad talked me out of it.
I hope that my husband does call his father back and ask him why he said what he did. I hope my husband finds an answer, even if it hurts him. I think he should know. Then I hope he tells his father to shove the invite to the Graduation up his ass because he’s no longer allowed to attend!
David is such a fucking asshole.
His wife is a bitch, in a BAD WAY!
That’s all for now.
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