Joe and Harry (and Sanna?), can we do the vodka drinking on Saturday? I found out that my friend's hen night (polttarit) is on Friday and I'd like to go there. But I can come to Turku on Friday already if all of you are busy on Saturday or something.
I found a cool test from
terva. I'm not sure if I've done it before, might have, but I didn't remember the results anymore. Anyway, it's very accurate in some parts.
Take the test. the Observer - "I need to understand the world"
You chose BZ - your Enneagram type is FIVE.
Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical, and insightful.
How to get along with me:
- Be independent, not clingy.
- Speak in a straightforward and brief manner.
- I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.
- Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable.
- Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity.
- If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place.
- Don't come on like a bulldozer.
- Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.
What I like about being a five:
- Standing back and viewing life objectively.
- Coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects.
- My sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure.
- Not being caught up in material possessions and status.
- Being calm in a crisis.
What's hard about being a five:
- Being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world.
- Feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all.
- Being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be.
- Watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or technical skill, do better professionally.
Fives as children often
- spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on.
- have a few special friends rather than many.
- are very bright and curious and do well in school.
- have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers.
- watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information.
- assume a poker face in order not to look afraid.
- are sensitive; avoid interpersonal conflict.
- feel intruded upon and controlled and/or ignored and neglected.
Fives as parents
- are often kind, perceptive, and devoted.
- are sometimes authoritarian and demanding.
- may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate.
- may be intolerant of their children expressing strong emotions.