Well
I generally try to keep my own counsel, mostly cause I generally put my foot in my mouth when I lash out. I'll keep this brief, with that in mind.
A Certain Someone called Another Someone a cunt on my facebook wall. Now, I keep facebook to keep in contact with friends and family and to let others I know connect with me, and thats about it. I made the apparent mistake of trying to get a bunch of friends to a Thanksgiving kind of get-together though, and Certain Someone didn't like that Another Someone was invited to be there, and would not go if Another Someone was there. And used the rather insulting word.
Fuck that noise.
Heres what I'd like: If you don't like some of the friends I keep, then thats your thing. If I try to get you in the same room, and you don't like it, fine. But tell me, and don't publically blast them in front of me. At least respect my decisions of the company I keep enough that you don't make me feel uncomfortable. If you don't respect them, then at least respect my wishes. I'm done explaining who I care for, I'm done explaining who I live with and why. This isn't the first time this has happened, but I'm not gonna play anymore.
I can joke about people, and I can discuss. But I won't put up with just being a dick. If you make me choose between you or them, you sure as fuck can assume I'm gonna choose the other party.
A Certain Someone called Another Someone a cunt on my facebook wall. Now, I keep facebook to keep in contact with friends and family and to let others I know connect with me, and thats about it. I made the apparent mistake of trying to get a bunch of friends to a Thanksgiving kind of get-together though, and Certain Someone didn't like that Another Someone was invited to be there, and would not go if Another Someone was there. And used the rather insulting word.
Fuck that noise.
Heres what I'd like: If you don't like some of the friends I keep, then thats your thing. If I try to get you in the same room, and you don't like it, fine. But tell me, and don't publically blast them in front of me. At least respect my decisions of the company I keep enough that you don't make me feel uncomfortable. If you don't respect them, then at least respect my wishes. I'm done explaining who I care for, I'm done explaining who I live with and why. This isn't the first time this has happened, but I'm not gonna play anymore.
I can joke about people, and I can discuss. But I won't put up with just being a dick. If you make me choose between you or them, you sure as fuck can assume I'm gonna choose the other party.