Merry Christmas and happy new year

[nadjalee]

Merry Christmas and happy new year to you all.

I am so sorry I have disappeared off the face of the planet but RL has been really stressed lately. I will try and return next year but I am not sure whether or not it is possible as work will become more demanding.

Hugs to you all and I hope everything is going well :)

Comments

[konishi_zen]

Talk about a stroke of timing! I was wondering what you were up to, and hey presto! Here you are! Hope you have a good holidays and that the year's fantastic for you (2010, that is)

Cheers!

[nadjalee]

Thanks so much; was thinking about you too. 'tight embrace' I hope you had a nice holiday and a great New Year.
Things have been hectic in 2009 for me. My grandmother has been ill, my sister got married to a very dominating man who don't want her to meet me or others alone, work has become harder, money has been tight and I have been moving twice and will move again in a few weeks. On the positive side I am still together with my new boyfriend and things are going great. :)

How are things for you? Hope all is going well. 'hugs and love'

[konishi_zen]

Yeah, 2009 was basically how you described yours in the terms of being hectic for different reasons...gotta look for work, money's tight, tons of exes and no prince charming on the horizon, I stopped talking to my oldest brother and I'm in Montreal and trying to figure out what to do now.

On the positive note-not as insane as I was before, more optimistic and finding that things aren't as hellish as I thought. Oh and I have my own place and my collection of NHL action figures has grown a hell of a lot. Heh.

It's the little things that make it, I guess. Just gotta keep the battle going, I suppose.

Take care!

[nadjalee]

I'm sorry to hear 2009 was also hectic for you. Suddenly things do change though and you will see that too. 'hugs'

Sorry about your brother but sometimes everyone needs a little time alone and distance and maybe after a while you can start afresh if you want to.

I am also very happy to hear you are finding more joy and happiness in your life. Being sad and depressed hurts only one person; yourself. It was a lesson I had to learn the hard way but it is worth the journey to find the reward. And what is the reward; no it is not a prince but a feeling of calm and the ability to take joy in things around you. :)

So keep on fighting the good fight 'hugs and kisses'

[konishi_zen]

I'm really hoping this will be the case this year. Well, I got a clear sight, full heart...can't lose. And I think I just mangled the dialogue for Friday Night Lights. LOL.

I am not hopeful about this because he's such an arrogant asshole that I'd rather deal with not ever talking to him than starting a conversation with him again.

I hear you on that. I do struggle to keep my head up, but I'm doing it more now than before and it's working out much better than it used to. At least I don't turn to vices to help me cope. It sucks, feeling everything and standing on my own sometimes, but it's so worth it in the end.

Keeping at it!

Cheers luv!