Should I stay or should I go?

Apr 22, 2011 13:05

In just a few weeks I will be done with my studies. I will be a fully qualified medical secretary. I will be finished. No more school. It's the beginning of a new chapter in my life. An uncertain future. I have so many doubts about my future and enough doubts about my choice of profession for a separate LJ entry (how bad is that?). And many ( Read more... )

moving, danne, future, stockholm, örebro, decisions, thoughts

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naye April 22 2011, 14:23:11 UTC
It looks like you've thought it through really well - and that you're aware of the most important thing, which is that nothing you decide to do is permanent. You can always change your minds; you can always do one thing for now, and another one later.

Another thing you could do is look at why you shouldn't do either one or the other. Right now Örebro definitely looks like the best option for you, but what about drawbacks to living in Örebro? What about Stockholm? Especially if Stockholm has a lot of drawbacks for you, you might want to map those out, too.

Good luck! Making decisions like this is never easy, and you've got a lot on your mind right now. But I think that no matter what you do, you'll end up happy. ♥

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nackrufs April 22 2011, 23:02:01 UTC
That is true and it's good to have in mind. And actually, we don't have to choose either of them - we could move to a completely different town! :P Not very likely, but we could.

Ah yes, I did that and this actually started out as a list of pros and cons, but the drawbacks were pretty much just the opposites of the benefits so I skipped them ^^

Thank you so much! ♥ I really hope you're right!

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darnia April 23 2011, 01:02:05 UTC
I was just going to ask why not move to a completely different town, but then you wouldn't have your family close.

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heuteistmeintag April 23 2011, 02:58:54 UTC
I came here to suggest Eskilstuna or Västerås...half way in between the two!

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nackrufs April 23 2011, 04:58:37 UTC
Haha, yes. I've thought about it :P

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vargen April 23 2011, 07:34:04 UTC
Västerås is full of nice people so I agree! :D

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nackrufs April 23 2011, 04:53:41 UTC
Exactly :) No family or connections, which could be great for some but I don't think it suits us. Perhaps later in life?

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