This morning I practised driving with mum. I made a few mistakes, but overall it went well. We had hardly started driving when it happened. We collided with another car
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Aww, sweetie! *hugs* That's so scary! I know... I had a really, really close call once at a crossing - and that was my fault, and I was so terrified. But even experience drivers react like that - and even to small mistakes! It's not you! Crying is good, you're getting it out of your system. And being scared is natural, but you'll get back into it. You will.
Now you've had your scary experience, you've had your accident - and you know what? You did extremely well. You reacted by doing the smart thing, and then you were shocked and shaken and had a perfectly normal reaction on that. But I'm so impressed by you! You did the best you could in a terrifying situation, and then you kept your calm until it was safe. So I'd feel safe if you were driving - I'd know I could trust you react in the best possible way. *hugs
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*hugs* You write the most awesome comments! ♥ (And I never know how to reply to all the awesomeness)
I've done my crying now and I feel much better already :) And I went to my driving lesson yesterday and did okay. So.. I'll get over this for sure. But I'm still so angry >_< He could have ruined so much for me and it could have been so much worse >_< Stupid, stupid person! It's a tad intimidating to know that he and other reckless drivers are out there (to get me o_o), but I hope I won't have to experience anything like this again :/
I'm not sure I react in the best possible way actually, but hopefully I will after I have more experience. Right now I don't feel that safe when driving..
Thank you! :) Refuge, okay! :) My dictionary said "traffic island" for "trafikdelare" ^^ And I wanted to write side-view mirrors or something similar, but wikipedia said wing mirror was better.
Aw, honeybun! What a terrible thing! But of course, none of this was your fault! That guy is such a loser! >_< I wish someone took his license from him! I understand that you feel like you don't want to drive, and that's alright. But, I think that you will start driving again. Now you've experienced this, and I think you'll be even better at handling traffic and reading other drivers from now on.
Anyways, I'm sorry you've felt so sad and have been crying so much after this. But that's just coping with shock. Don't blame yourself dear, you will become an excellent driver. Just give yourself time.
Nope, it wasn't, but I still felt stupid and like I had done wrong.. But I feel much better now :) Thanks to you guys. *hugs* I wish that too! Such idiots shouldn't be allowed to drive >_<
I will give myself as much time as needed and hopefully I've learnt something through this ^^ Thank you! ♥
Awww, gumman. :/ Jag håller med om allt som naye säger - hon formulerar sig alltid så himla bra - och det var verkligen INTE ditt fel. Men jag förstår att du blev rädd. :( *kram* Fick idioten en utskällning? Tog ni bilnumret eller något? Bad han över huvud taget om ursäkt? Dumma dumma dumma. >_< Men jag tror att det är lite grann som man säger på ridskolor och så, att om man ramlar av hästen så är det bara upp i sadeln direkt igen som gäller. Väntar man för länge så blir man räddare och räddare. Så jag tror det är bra att du ska på lektion så snart igen!
För övrigt vill jag säga att det var en himla söt illustration i alla fall. ^__^ Alltid något!
*kramar massor* Mamma skällde nog lite på honom, ja. Jag hörde inte så mycket eftersom jag var upptagen med att storböla ^^; Mamma tog bilnumret, namn, adress och telefon. Vet inte om han bad om ursäkt, men han klappade mig på axeln och sa att vi skulle vara glada att det inte blev värre >_>
Tror att det stämmer, ja :) Så nu har jag redan varit på en lektion igen, och det var nog bra att få köra utan att det skedde några olyckor ^^
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What an asshat, reckless people like these shouldn't be allowed on the streets O__o Good though, that you and your mom (and the car) are okay.
Hopefully, after you've slept a night, things will look a bit better. It usually takes some time to get over a bad happening like that.
*hands you a basket of strength*
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Thank you, my dear ♥ I do feel a bit better today.
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Now you've had your scary experience, you've had your accident - and you know what? You did extremely well. You reacted by doing the smart thing, and then you were shocked and shaken and had a perfectly normal reaction on that. But I'm so impressed by you! You did the best you could in a terrifying situation, and then you kept your calm until it was safe. So I'd feel safe if you were driving - I'd know I could trust you react in the best possible way. *hugs ( ... )
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I've done my crying now and I feel much better already :) And I went to my driving lesson yesterday and did okay. So.. I'll get over this for sure. But I'm still so angry >_< He could have ruined so much for me and it could have been so much worse >_< Stupid, stupid person! It's a tad intimidating to know that he and other reckless drivers are out there (to get me o_o), but I hope I won't have to experience anything like this again :/
I'm not sure I react in the best possible way actually, but hopefully I will after I have more experience. Right now I don't feel that safe when driving..
Thank you! :) Refuge, okay! :) My dictionary said "traffic island" for "trafikdelare" ^^ And I wanted to write side-view mirrors or something similar, but wikipedia said wing mirror was better.
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Han var nog bara jävligt puckad. Möjligtvis lite bakfull också..? Ja, stackars mig.
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Anyways, I'm sorry you've felt so sad and have been crying so much after this. But that's just coping with shock. Don't blame yourself dear, you will become an excellent driver. Just give yourself time.
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I will give myself as much time as needed and hopefully I've learnt something through this ^^ Thank you! ♥
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För övrigt vill jag säga att det var en himla söt illustration i alla fall. ^__^ Alltid något!
*många kramar*
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*kramar massor* Mamma skällde nog lite på honom, ja. Jag hörde inte så mycket eftersom jag var upptagen med att storböla ^^; Mamma tog bilnumret, namn, adress och telefon. Vet inte om han bad om ursäkt, men han klappade mig på axeln och sa att vi skulle vara glada att det inte blev värre >_>
Tror att det stämmer, ja :) Så nu har jag redan varit på en lektion igen, och det var nog bra att få köra utan att det skedde några olyckor ^^
Haha, tycker du det? ^^ Ja.. tack då :P
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