Mar 14, 2005 22:12
Love is allowing someone in your life, not needing them.
Love is finding the people on this planet who don't, legally, have to give a rat's ass about you.
Love is not easy.
Love is not fast.
Love is NOT A STUPID SONG.
Love is NOT A GOOD SONG.
In fact love has nothing to do with music whatsoever so stop.
Love is not about YOU.
Just in case you did not understand I will repeat myself:
LOVE IS NOT ABOUT YOU.
Do not need people. There is no more sure way to destroy, and I mean to the very foundations destroy, a relationship than to need someone. Being needed sucks. It may not seem like it now, but ask someone who has been married to a very dependent person for fifteen years, or someone who has raised children. Being needed sucks.
You do not need them. You can live without them. Life does go on. Heartbreak should kill you. Like a bullet to the head, or a drop off a cliff, you should die from the pain, but you don't.