just because there are two sides in a coin

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Thea's right. It ain't fair to the guys if us girls just write about what about them turns us off. I mean, they've got good qualities too, right? At first I didn't want to do this meme because... well... I couldn't think of anything! Hahaha! I don't know, this morning I was still kinda bitter about (and towards) guys because of several traumatic experiences, which are very much evident in my last two blogs. Haha!

But hey, I'd be a hypocrite if I keep looking at guys in a bad light, and I get turned off by pessimistic guys. Haha! And actually I do remember doing something similar to this over three years ago. I was so idealistic back then, swear! Haha! I'll try to tone it down this time...

List down 10 major Turn-Ons when dating the opposite sex.  Then tag 10 people you want to do the same.

1. Guys who make me laugh are really attractive. Number one on my list talaga. I'm such a babaw person and I love to laugh and have fun. I also like a guy who can laugh at a situation or just take it easy by inserting jokes from time to time. Kinda like those stand up comics. I mean, any person naman diba, if he's like this happy jolly person, he really does attract friends and stuff. But don't turn everything into a joke ha! I might think that you don't take anything seriously.
2. Gentledogs, este, GENTLEMEN. Of course, given the scarcity of their breed nowadays, it's really a delight to see someone who opens the door for us girls, let us pass through first, carry our heavy stuff, and all other gentlemanly gestures there are in the world. This is because I've been treated as one of the guys for much too long. I deserve a little bit of girly treatment too!
   
3. Talented guys totally rock for me. That's why I crush on dancers and musicians because they're just so totally sexy! Hahaha! I guess it's the thought that they might just serenade me or take me to the dance floor and just sweep me off my feet. Gaaahh I'm drooling right now! :) And if that's not enough, guys who know how to cook (and not just the prito2x kind!) are super turn on as well! Huwah! Kinikilig ako! Hahaha!
4. Guys who hug more than they kiss. Hehehe! Sure kisses are fun and yummy, but there's something so wonderful about hugs that they make me feel so protected and loved and secure, especially when the guy hugging me has muscular arms... HAHAHAH! Damn these carnal fantasies! Hahaha! Oh yeah now I know... kisses kasi, only the lips are touching, but hugs are really more intimate because more parts of the body are in touch with each other. Wala lang, hugs are so comforting, so I love guys who love hugs. Hahaha!
5. Oh, boys who DONT need booze to have fun! I totally agree with Ria! Natural high is definitely the way to go! That's why it sucked talaga when my boyfriend said, "Saka mo lang ako mapapasayaw pag lasing na ako." Like duh, yeah it's fun to dance in tipsy mode, but dancing's a lot more enjoyable when NOT buzzed! Boys who need alcohol to have fun have too many inhibitions, man. They need to loosen up! :)
6. Boys who have hobbies are more interesting than boys who don't. And I'm not talking about computer games because those are lame and for high school and grade school kids only. I'm talking about guys who play sports or whatever other productive things.
7. Guys who are close with their family. Wala lang. Family values. Hahaha! I'm thinking more long term here. Coz I can be sure that guys who treat their mommas and sisters and nieces and aunts well will also treat me right! Plus, if the's raised with good values, then he can also raise his own family with good values. Ehehe!
   
8. Mga lalaki na walay kurat! In English, boys who have no shock! Hahahaha! Seriously, though. Boys who are up for anything are really cool. Like I said, I'm pretty adventurous and I wanna hang with guys who are just game. :)
9. I dig guys who are driven. They know what they want and how to get it. It shows their ambition and hard work. Tsaka they're gonna be more or less happy kasi achieve nila goals nila and they're more or less contented na. No more insecurities in life. Hehehe!
10. Boys with sweet surprises! Stolen kisses, small gifts/tokens at unexpected moments, dancing under the stars, love letters, and other stuff that only happens in cheesy Filipino movies! Hahahaha! I'll be the first one to admit that I want those kinds of things! Hahaha! Wala eh, certified hopeless romantic here. Hahaha!

*sigh*

Kinikilig tuloy ako. And I'm also reevaluating things right now. Mga pahamak na surveys yan. Makapag-tag na nga!

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