just irritated..
ok.. so here's a VERY NEW RANT that i have to let out..
a friend (well used-to-be-friend) of mine, has a kid.. which i'm happy for.. don't get me wrong.. i think it's wonderful!.. but the fact of the matter is.. why are you gonna get yourself pregnant, to gain attention?! what's the point of having that wonderful child in your life if you're too stupid to give that child a better life than your own?! you're not a worthy parent.. and a horribly mother! you only fucking think of YOURSELF. you have no right to deprive of that lovely innocent little girl of being social.. i get it yes you don't have the dough to put her in an expensive daycare.. but you know there are other options to see here.. since you're a single mother.. and don't work.. you can send her to a subsidized daycare.. meaning? you don't have to pay!.. and what you're too lazy to fucking WALK to take the bus?! YOU DON'T WORK so you are shit out of luck for that idea.. dumbass..
me and my bf of a year now.. have been trying to have a child.. of course with no luck.. nothing has come of it.. i've taken care of children before.. even my godson since he was a baby.. and now he's 9 almost 10.. and he's such a smart little cookie.. always does things on his own.. even before he was 4.. he knew what he wanted and if no one would do it for him, he would help himself.. and i think that's a wonderful thing.. and plus if you don't give that child a chance to interact with other kids.. how are they supposed to learn about sharing.. having friends.. and meeting other children is all about? are you really that fucking naiive and stupid.. you want your child to grow up exactly like you?!
i wasn't even fucking born in canada and i know that's fucking WRONG.. my parents gave up everything in the philippines, so i could have a better future than they had.. and they made sure i was put first in everything..
and it wasn't until i grew older and older that i realized that your parents are only there for you when you're younger to guide you in life.. to make sure you have a bright future ahead of you.. so that you can take care of yourself.. and make sure that you live life to the fullest.. and in return when they get older, you can take care of them.. and see to it that you put them first as well.. because it's all about giving back to your parents.. because they are yours.. and you are their baby..
even though i don't have a child right now, i would do anything for that (future) child.. make sure they are well fed, properly cared for, and spoiled rotten.. just to make sure they get a better life than i do.. because they are life's precious miracles.. as i was a child.. i was a bright kid..
when i was 10 months old.. i learned how to walk.. before i was 1 i learned how to say mama.. now that's saying a lot about my parents.. too bad my dad went abroad and i got spoiled by my mother LOL. i think that's where my expensive taste in clothes and fashion came from LOL.. i always seemed dressed to impress.. and my mom never ever let me suffer.. she was always there for me.. a shoulder to cry on, open ears to listen to my problems.. and my dad was always there to kick my ass when i was out of line.. defend me when i was wronged..
basically i think that a child shouldn't be held back because it would limit their ability to grow as a person.. and watching fucking dora the explorer or watching tv all fucking day and night.. DOES NOT FUCKING COUNT as "teaching my child another language" because watching too much tv.. could alter their brain.. and think that tv is their only friend..
i'm an only child and i know that.. i used to think the tv was the only friend i had.. until i went to high school.. i had tons of friends! even the bad ones.. LOL.. but that didn't change the fact that i had TONS of friends! they were wonderful.. i was social.. i always went out with them on fridays.. hanging out at the malls and everything.. life was good when i was 16 LOL.. not a care in the damn world.. lol.. just loving my life.. way before facebook of course.. which was great LOL.. and i wasn't spoiled by having a cellphone back then. because when i was in my final year of high school.. was when i was given a cell phone.. pretty late but i still had one..
but back to my main rant..
children need to grow as young adults.. and if you deprive them of meeting and interacting with other children.. you're no better than they are.. because when they get old enough and realize that you whored around.. and did what you did to get what you wanted.. she will grow up and think it's okay to ALWAYS get what they want.. she will either grow up to resent you.. or ultimately a mother's worst nightmare: suicide..
remember to always think about others.. before yourself.. especially your child.. i may NOT have a child.. but i know to put them first before myself ALWAYS..
that's it
a friend (well used-to-be-friend) of mine, has a kid.. which i'm happy for.. don't get me wrong.. i think it's wonderful!.. but the fact of the matter is.. why are you gonna get yourself pregnant, to gain attention?! what's the point of having that wonderful child in your life if you're too stupid to give that child a better life than your own?! you're not a worthy parent.. and a horribly mother! you only fucking think of YOURSELF. you have no right to deprive of that lovely innocent little girl of being social.. i get it yes you don't have the dough to put her in an expensive daycare.. but you know there are other options to see here.. since you're a single mother.. and don't work.. you can send her to a subsidized daycare.. meaning? you don't have to pay!.. and what you're too lazy to fucking WALK to take the bus?! YOU DON'T WORK so you are shit out of luck for that idea.. dumbass..
me and my bf of a year now.. have been trying to have a child.. of course with no luck.. nothing has come of it.. i've taken care of children before.. even my godson since he was a baby.. and now he's 9 almost 10.. and he's such a smart little cookie.. always does things on his own.. even before he was 4.. he knew what he wanted and if no one would do it for him, he would help himself.. and i think that's a wonderful thing.. and plus if you don't give that child a chance to interact with other kids.. how are they supposed to learn about sharing.. having friends.. and meeting other children is all about? are you really that fucking naiive and stupid.. you want your child to grow up exactly like you?!
i wasn't even fucking born in canada and i know that's fucking WRONG.. my parents gave up everything in the philippines, so i could have a better future than they had.. and they made sure i was put first in everything..
and it wasn't until i grew older and older that i realized that your parents are only there for you when you're younger to guide you in life.. to make sure you have a bright future ahead of you.. so that you can take care of yourself.. and make sure that you live life to the fullest.. and in return when they get older, you can take care of them.. and see to it that you put them first as well.. because it's all about giving back to your parents.. because they are yours.. and you are their baby..
even though i don't have a child right now, i would do anything for that (future) child.. make sure they are well fed, properly cared for, and spoiled rotten.. just to make sure they get a better life than i do.. because they are life's precious miracles.. as i was a child.. i was a bright kid..
when i was 10 months old.. i learned how to walk.. before i was 1 i learned how to say mama.. now that's saying a lot about my parents.. too bad my dad went abroad and i got spoiled by my mother LOL. i think that's where my expensive taste in clothes and fashion came from LOL.. i always seemed dressed to impress.. and my mom never ever let me suffer.. she was always there for me.. a shoulder to cry on, open ears to listen to my problems.. and my dad was always there to kick my ass when i was out of line.. defend me when i was wronged..
basically i think that a child shouldn't be held back because it would limit their ability to grow as a person.. and watching fucking dora the explorer or watching tv all fucking day and night.. DOES NOT FUCKING COUNT as "teaching my child another language" because watching too much tv.. could alter their brain.. and think that tv is their only friend..
i'm an only child and i know that.. i used to think the tv was the only friend i had.. until i went to high school.. i had tons of friends! even the bad ones.. LOL.. but that didn't change the fact that i had TONS of friends! they were wonderful.. i was social.. i always went out with them on fridays.. hanging out at the malls and everything.. life was good when i was 16 LOL.. not a care in the damn world.. lol.. just loving my life.. way before facebook of course.. which was great LOL.. and i wasn't spoiled by having a cellphone back then. because when i was in my final year of high school.. was when i was given a cell phone.. pretty late but i still had one..
but back to my main rant..
children need to grow as young adults.. and if you deprive them of meeting and interacting with other children.. you're no better than they are.. because when they get old enough and realize that you whored around.. and did what you did to get what you wanted.. she will grow up and think it's okay to ALWAYS get what they want.. she will either grow up to resent you.. or ultimately a mother's worst nightmare: suicide..
remember to always think about others.. before yourself.. especially your child.. i may NOT have a child.. but i know to put them first before myself ALWAYS..
that's it