Relationship beginnings

Sep 11, 2010 02:46

So I have been dating this guy, Mark, for about 5 months now.... We got together in a semi-not so great way. Well my friends Alyssa and Chrissy were coming to my house for Easter. Alyssa was coming with her new bf... I think they'd been together for about a week. But anyways, i thought he was this adorable weird looking alien midget.... but we all chilled and it was cool. We hung out as a group almost everyday after that. I found myself in the backseat looking at him thru the review mirror and smiling to myself. Loving his personality and that weird face to match. BUt one day we were all hanging and they dropped me off first. I accidentally left my drink in the car and he was on his way to dropping chrissy and ally off at home. they needed to be in by 10 and it was 930 something. So they couldnt turn around and bring me my drink. So when he dropped them off he brought my drink back to me. We stood and sat around from 10 something until about 2 am just talking and laughing. he realized that he needed to go home before his mom trips. he got home only to realize that everyone was knocked out and not worried about him. The whole time he's still texting me.  So he stresses that he wants  to come back and chill with me and wanted to  know what i thought. I told him ultimately the decision was up to him and that i would be fine either way. So he came all the way back by me. I had just hopped outta the shower so me and my lotion went and sat in his car... we're talkin and talkin and then he kisses me.  I liked ...no i LOVED it and i didnt go against it. but whenever we finally came to our senses i asked him about ally. he said that they werent together anymore and that they were having too many issues. that he wanted to be with me and he would be damned if he took no for an answer. He said that he was gonna make me his girlfriend after i met his mother. We texted back and forth everyday and every chance we got. ally and chrissy temporarily moved in with me. I ended up having to give him a nickname, Alienhead.... and i talked about him freely. told chrissy who he was and left it at a nickname with ally. I didnt wanna hurt her feelings but I just couldnt give up this amazing guy. So on April 16, 2010.... I went to meet his mother. She loved me, thought i was the cutest sweetest thing. She ordered us some pizza and told us good night. when the pizza was gone, at 10:47pm Mark got down on his knee, grabbed my hand and asked the question:" Will you,Melony Marie Spencer do me the honor of being my girlfriend?"... How in the hell could a stupid hopeless romantic like me say anything besides yes... She eventually found out about us but not about the previous start. i eventually asked her if it would be ok, and/or to let her know my intentions and find out what i could do to make it easier for her. She said she was fine with it as long as she didnt have to see it. We have been together ever since.... But of course not w/o complications.... those come in later posts

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