I didn't know Herman Melville wrote a co-dependency novel !?
...that being said; my iPhone wails STYX when my mom calls (we're big fans and you should go see them new years eve in tempe) and you know what?!... its pretty alright. It warms my heart. Nothing is absolute. Live your life. F&%^ the rest. Be it finding love in the wrong place or picking your nose when you really need to.
(but really, do shoot me when i have 'Womanizer' coming out of my phone. I don't care if i get to the point where its supposed to be funny. Just shoot me.)