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[mysticmoonblade]

Decided to finally just basically make this friends only, and put a lot of the public posts I made into one entry, so this will be long.

Comments

[kilanias]

So basically you're too much of a chicken to let your friends from __fantasynovel know that you more or less ratted them out and choose to stay annonymous.

You involved yourself when you came to my journal and gave me the link. You aren't directly involved, but you chose to give me the link, which made yourself involved. You assumed I'd want to defend myself, and I would have, but if I were meant to find that entry without your help, I would have. Plain and simple. You chose to butt in and choose to stay annonymous because you don't want to be bitched out by your friends. Lucky for you, coyotecult and I are on an "agreement" and are affiliating communities. Usually we wouldn't be, but we seem to agree on some things, so now we're acquaintences. I didn't need you to point the link out to me, and butting your nose in just causes trouble.

But...how is it that you're disagreeing with their ways? Because you chose to give me the link? If you have to fear what your friends will do or say, then obviously they aren't real friends. You have your own mind, and if you don't agree with the things they say, it's your choice. They shouldn't hold it against you, because that's not something a friend does.

In a way, I suppose I should thank you, though as honerable as it was, it really wasn't needed. It caused some drama that I didn't really need, and could've been unavoided if you'd given me more than a link. Maybe just say "You might want to look at this. I saw what someone said about you and thought you'd want to know," instead of just giving me a link. It's not your job to just randomly give these links out to people, and if you want it to be your job, you should give some explanation.

You are presuming and assuming much and knowing very little. I would try and explain, but you are one of those types who does not read, but leaps and bounds to wrong conclusions and makes nasty things up.
"It" caused some drama? You were the one who was causing the drama, not some neuter pronoun.

[mysticmoonblade]

This is all I'm going to say. I'm officially going to end it, because I'm officially going to block you. I don't need people coming to my journal and randomly giving links to things I obviously didn't NEED to see- if they were threatening my life, that's different, but it was just another session of LJ drama- and you really had no right to come and show it to me. You're not my friend, and "defending my honor" as you called it is up to me if I see a need for it.

I don't think I'm assuming and presuming (which are the same thing. For someone who claims that I know too little, you sure as hell don't know a lot, or you wouldn't have repeated the same word) anything. You basically told me that you're too much of a chicken to tell me who you are because you don't want your __fantasynovel friends to know that you ratted them out. I don't need an assumption- if that weren't the case, you would've said so and actually told me why you did it the way you did, but you really didn't. And making assumptions about me when you're the one who snapped when I apparently made assumption about you is quite the contradiction.

Yes, "it" caused drama- YOU gave me the link, YOU decided to show it to me, and YOU assumed in the first place that I needed to "defend my honor." If I had felt the need to defend it, I wouldn't have needed you to show it to me, and I would've found it on my own. I don't need the extra drama in my life right now, so that's why I'm going to block you. You won't be allowed to comment in this journal anymore. Call it immature, but really, it's not. I don't need the drama from someone who decided to butt into my business and was too much of a coward to tell their friends in a community- who are thousands of miles away, most likely, from you, and aren't going to hurt you for pointing something out to someone- that you decided to show a link to someone who was being talked about behind their back. If I had been meant to find it on my own, I would have.

And now I bid you farewell. I could've been the mature one and not have commented, but I think it's better doing it this way in this case. I don't WANT to block you, but I don't really see much of a choice. I don't want the extra drama, especially on this journal, so thanks, but no thanks. Take the drama somewhere else.