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[mystar1102]

Like I'm honestly more scared than I have ever been. Last night he told me that after he had broken up with her, he said to himself you're such an asshole, why would you do that? I just don't understand. I really, really don't understand. Ahh I'm so scared.

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[ash_kem]

I can understand why you're scared, but, the thing is, Scott's (pretty much) with you now. He was with Stephanie for a long time. Of course he's going to think about her every once in a while, you know? I know you don't think about Mike much anymore, but I guess it was just easier for you to break things off with Mike than it was for Scott to break things off with Stephanie... especially since when you and Mike broke up, you knew it was coming. You knew things were going downhill, so you had more time to prepare yourself and get over everything. (Not to mention the fact that you were fully aware that Scott was what you wanted, and Scott was what you would get.) On the other hand, I think things with Scott and Stephanie were more sudden. He was annoyed with her, but he was willing to put up with it. I guess he figured that if he put up with it long enough, he wouldn't notice it anymore, or it would just go away. I guess he thought of the good times and hoped that, in the end, they would outweigh the bad. He probably thought it would be easier to just put up with what he had, rather than end it and have to try to find something else.

Also, I don't think Scott knew that you and him were going to be together right away. You knew it... because you wanted it, and because you tend to get whatever it is you want when it comes to guys. I guess what I'm trying to say is that Scott didn't have as easy a transition as you did.

But, you know what? I think it's good that he's talking to you about his feelings towards Stephanie. I think it shows that he cares about you, and that he trusts you. He's willing to share his feelings, even though he knows it's a sensitive subject. I don't know why he still talks to her on the phone; I guess they're still friends. But I don't think he's going to get back with her.

Just try not to be too jealous, ok? You'll only push him away, and I know that's not what you want.