Jul 25, 2005 23:42
one of my friends opened some spam mail and offered it for discussion:
MOST men, and I'm talking about 95% of them, have NO IDEA how or why women feel that amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some men.
And if they DO have an idea, it's usually DEAD WRONG.
All most guys know is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for THEM. IF YOU DON'T "GET" HOW ATTRACTION WORKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO. NOTHING WILL WORK.
Think about the concept of ATTRACTION for a moment. What is it? Is it important? Is it the same for men and women? Do you KNOW how it works for women? Have you ever taken the time to LEARN how it works for women? Have you ever CARED how it works for women? Are you guilty of spending more time thinking about what you're going to leave on your outgoing voicemail message than thinking about this topic?
in the end, i agree w/ the writers that most guys don't know. we all have our own theories and in the end, what works for one may or may not (probably not) work for another. we do know that some of our biggest mistakes include over expectations and pre/mis-conceptions, a chemically induced senility around very attractive women and probably focusing more on ourselves and what we're doing instead of living in the moment.
would any women out there care to share what makes guys attractive in in terms of body language and non-physical terms?