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There's an awfully big difference between being 'nice' and being 'kind.' Usually being 'nice' involves saying yes to a whole bunch of stuff you don't actually want to do in order to get everyone to like you. Being kind, on the other hand, usually involves thinking independently and about the long term, and saying 'no' to something when you know it's just going to mean more fuss and trouble in the future. So which would you rather be? Nice or kind? The choice is up to you.