Another Day...
Well what a turn of events.... I think that big guy who pulls all the strings is having a roller coaster phase with me. So I get this new job, a pretty good job at that, and I get my Picture on the front page of the local paper with the caption New Changes at LaCenter City Hall. With a brief bio of me and a quote, so I am feeling pretty special. I go out to check the mail today and the X still is having mail delivered to my address. I decide to call her and walk her through the instructions on the "change of address" packet I gave her, since it is clear that she is unable to follow written directions. When she answers I can tell her ass is chapped. She complains of me having the new job and her having to pay the bills on the house and I just remind her that she was the one who wanted out and it was her offer to pay the bills and thats what it says in the court order she made me sign... This chapps her ass even more... Then she tells me that it must be nice to be saving all this money while she pays the bills and I am out running around with a woman that lives an hour away with 2 kids (see my post on Crash and Burn). I ask her where on earth does she her all of these false rumors. "So it's not true" she asks. I said "no, that is a lie, people are stirring up trouble". She responds with "well I thought it wasnt true but had to ask you". I replied "yeah, she's actually a year younger than you are and she has 3 kids not two".... ok Now she is going Thermal... And I LOVE it I know it is only a small victory in battle that has already been decided, but I am telling you, WOW I feel better...
On another note, I think my Magic "Player" Skills are slowly returning... (Zyndril, we are right it is a numbers game). I decided it was a nice afternoon to go and get the Vette Washed. So, I popped the top and I was off to have the folks give my baby a bath. She sparkled, shined, and Smelled GREAT.... I think I will get a movie and a Pizza and go home to relax. Off to BB video and as I zip into the joint I note a FAB 6ft blonde walking in. Nice, I say to myself, get my movie and I'm outta there. I hop in the car and get ready to leave (top down still) and here she comes around the corner. "Excuse me..." she stops and walks over to me (still sitting in the car) and I tell her "I notice your not wearing any rings, are you seeing anyone right now ?" She seems somewhat giddy but tells me no, not really. Hmmm.. "Well I would love to take you out to dinner sometime". She asked my name, I asked hers and I said "here is my card, call me and we can chat about going out sometime, ok?" She smiles and says Ok I will. I hit the key and say ok, great, have a good night and zip on off and leave her standing there. Now the point of this is not that seemed somewhat of an ass and left her standing there, or worring about if she will call or not. I needed that to remind me that "I" can walk up to any girl, anytime, and say Hello and I will not be laughed at, or have them run away screaming. And you know what ? If they do I can just wait a few minutes and another one will be right behind her. I think I am done with relationships for a while. I think I will just try to find a lot of female friends that I can go out and have fun with.
It's not about sex. Don't get me wrong I like it, I love it, I want some more of it, but lets be real. Girls expect you to try and bang them, I think I will turn the tables and just have friends that I can have fun with and sexual stuff happens, thats ok too. I am OLD at 36 not trying to make myself out to be a super stud, but when I think about it, I have had 3 long term relationships 5,3, and 5 years each not counting the dating in between, and I have had sex THOUSANDS of times (Yes, With a partner for those you you wondering). So, it's not a sexual thing anymore, its more about getting along and having fun, as much fun as possible. I think that is the best way for me to spend any free time I may get in the next few weeks.
Good Night My Friends, Be Well
J
On another note, I think my Magic "Player" Skills are slowly returning... (Zyndril, we are right it is a numbers game). I decided it was a nice afternoon to go and get the Vette Washed. So, I popped the top and I was off to have the folks give my baby a bath. She sparkled, shined, and Smelled GREAT.... I think I will get a movie and a Pizza and go home to relax. Off to BB video and as I zip into the joint I note a FAB 6ft blonde walking in. Nice, I say to myself, get my movie and I'm outta there. I hop in the car and get ready to leave (top down still) and here she comes around the corner. "Excuse me..." she stops and walks over to me (still sitting in the car) and I tell her "I notice your not wearing any rings, are you seeing anyone right now ?" She seems somewhat giddy but tells me no, not really. Hmmm.. "Well I would love to take you out to dinner sometime". She asked my name, I asked hers and I said "here is my card, call me and we can chat about going out sometime, ok?" She smiles and says Ok I will. I hit the key and say ok, great, have a good night and zip on off and leave her standing there. Now the point of this is not that seemed somewhat of an ass and left her standing there, or worring about if she will call or not. I needed that to remind me that "I" can walk up to any girl, anytime, and say Hello and I will not be laughed at, or have them run away screaming. And you know what ? If they do I can just wait a few minutes and another one will be right behind her. I think I am done with relationships for a while. I think I will just try to find a lot of female friends that I can go out and have fun with.
It's not about sex. Don't get me wrong I like it, I love it, I want some more of it, but lets be real. Girls expect you to try and bang them, I think I will turn the tables and just have friends that I can have fun with and sexual stuff happens, thats ok too. I am OLD at 36 not trying to make myself out to be a super stud, but when I think about it, I have had 3 long term relationships 5,3, and 5 years each not counting the dating in between, and I have had sex THOUSANDS of times (Yes, With a partner for those you you wondering). So, it's not a sexual thing anymore, its more about getting along and having fun, as much fun as possible. I think that is the best way for me to spend any free time I may get in the next few weeks.
Good Night My Friends, Be Well
J