Holey Crap...

[myra911]

Well, yesterday, being boxing day. I woke up quite upset. This was the end of it all. Time to tell the kids and get the ball rolling. I cried all morning, I knew I had to get out of the house for a little while. So I told them, and I went to the barn to ride for a while. On my way home, my daughter called. She was very upset "Mom, do you know where

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[lalieohlalie]

Ok, I wrote you but still i have to say something about this.
I only know you, and I only know your side of the story so please understand i'm not trying tomake any judgments. Yet ... how coward and irresponsible of him to have acted this way. If it's not for the sake of your marriage, at least he could me more for the sake of your kids. This situation you are inis his fault, he wanted to split up yet you're alone facing the kids and explaining this to them while he supposively buying cigarettes yet is having a beer relaxing at some girl place ? Doesn't he care a bit more about his children that THAT ? Thats just revolting. When you are parents, you don't relay on the other person to do the cores for you. You and him had those kids together, he has to act like a man and assume it.
Anyways, how are the kids doing / taking it ?

[myra911]

I totally agree, and I told him that. He has no respect for me, his children, or even himself. He needs to get some professional help. He needs couselling. My kids are tough, they knew before I even told them that things were bad. They are trying to be strong, but I'm going to get them, as well as myself, some couselling too. I feel very small right now, and I dont want to feel like that.

[lalieohlalie]

I think this is good that you all have councelling because it's not for crazy people like so many people think so. I beleive kids always need concelling, i had some for years and it only did me good. So i think thats a good thing, also the fact that you talk and stay close to each others. I also may point out to you feeling so small right now that you are being rather courageous, but over all, i admire your capability to still be a great person capable of action and decision despite the metal and sentimental distress. You have a strong mind and a strong will. Remember this all times.Your hubby may not be capable of deaaling withthis all but you do it for two.

[myra911]

You really are an incredible person. I thank you so much for that. I'd hug you if I could.

[lalieohlalie]

I don't knwo about that. I try my best. Like I said you should get something from me by january, as weird as it may sound like to you, since we do not know each others deeply, but i am just trying to let you know im here if you need me. Throw away the miles apart crap, the fact im only 24, the internet based friendship and such thing, it dosn't make me less of a person and I care for you.