birthday month continues!
Well let's see, when I last left you it was ABOUT to be My birthday.
Well, My birthday happened! HAHA
I did it! I turned 33, just like jesus, and I haven't even died yet!~
It's sort of amazing. This year marks the 13th year I have been a part of the adult industry. That's a very long time! With an industry that generally has a shelf life of about a year I somehow made it over a decade.
I cannot tell you the thoughts that have been going thru My head. How grateful I am for My fans. I know some of you read the shit My fans say blog: www.shitmyfanssay.livejournal.com and think I'm just an evil witch who hates everyone all the time
The truth is if I hated all My fans I wouldn't have stayed doing this for so long!
I'm so happy with the way My own little leather family is growing and changing. I happen to have a lot of great folks in My life who I wouldn't have had if I didn't get into sex work. YOU guys keep Me going. When I get letters from sex workers in australia saying how I inspire them, when young women find Me in a crowd and tell Me how I changed the way they looked at themselves, when couples I am training don't need to see Me anymore because they are secure together in their relationship with kink thanks to Me.....this is the stuff that keeps Me going.
It's not the money, shit if it was the money I would have quit long ago and gotten a cushy job at arestaraunt and had health insurance and guaranteed paid checks and vacation time. This lifestyle is truly a labor of love, and I feel really lucky to have the life that I do
for insatnce, let's talk about My birthday week.
Well, My actual birthday was March 5th.
The day had quite a few hiccups in it but all in all was a day most people would dream of having.
I spent the day with My family from the world famous La Domaine Esemar www.LaDomaine.com
Mistress Magnum was in town from Canada www.MistressMagnum.com and the two of Us joined by Miss Couple, the new HeadMistress at La D and Master R (who readers of My blog should already know and love and respect) journeyed to Schenectady Community College to give a talk to their human sexuality class about BDSM. It was a lovely time. A GREAT group of students with thoughtful questions, not something you find everyday in college classrooms.
The rest of My bday was really low key, a little bit depressing and lonely and so My best friend Emrys bought Me a beer and triple caramel cake that was amazing.
Rest of birthday week was meh.
It involved a lot of star trek and a lot of computer work, more work than any one person should do on their birthday week
BUT I wanted to get it all done because it was really important to Me to be able to take some down time
SATURDAY the 8th My homie Jiz Lee www.jizlee.com was in town as a keynote speaker for the Queer Conference at hampshire college
hampshire.edu/queerconf
What a lovely little conference. I'm so glad I went! Unlike previous years when I try to infiltrate queer happenings in the five college area and get made to feel....um, not enough of this and too much of that, it really felt like a lovely little community and networking event and folks were all really sweet.
It was a really fun time. As always, no other way to put it than to say it's a fucking pleasure spending time with Jiz.
Even got some chill time at dinner with Tristan Taormino of www.puckerup.com and some other lovelies at dinner.
Then went out for drinks at a spot that had a bunch of attractive waitstaff, and got to know a new localish friend and see My friend ho teaches queer yoga in noho.
In keeping with My birthday week traditions of spending time with Jiz we stayed up til way too late ina swanky hotel room. And then got brunch the next day, and then went to a hot tub spa.
What do two pornstars do when they hang out alone?
Exactly what you'd imagine....hang around naked in a hottub and sauna and attempt to take selfies thru the steam.
It was so relaxing that I don't actually remember the last time I was that relaxed.
I felt like I was floating for the whole day afterward.
NO PICS
friends: I really failed at pictures this birthday week. I promise to more than make up for it during My bday parties this month.
Let's talk about them!
My burlesque invasion at the stripclub is happening March 21st in springfield MA!
I'm being joined by Mistress Julie Simone. Her grand finale show involved a strapon and a unicorn mask and Me as a pony. I'm not going to really ask questions.
I'll also be joined by SHY SEDUCTION and MORGAN FEY!
All the info for that party can be found here:
https://www.facebook.com/events/1405143563078207/
and here's the sexy flyer made by Dave Dawson:
My SECOND bday party is march 29th in North Adams MA
It's a motherfucking punk rock show! It's also FREE! It's a potluck so please bring food to share
and join Me to enjoy the sounds of NO WINDOW, MORON and ORDER OF THE CIRCLE there's also going to be a special guest appearance by western MA favorites BARE BONES
I'm so stoked
all the info for this one can be found here:
https://www.facebook.com/events/724014464296004/
and the flyer is old skool cut n bleed hand lettered by yours truly here:
I'll have merch available at both of these shows, handmade clothing, hair pieces, My new book! DVDs, posters, framed limited edition prints and a whole lot more.
There's a grip of stuff goin on in between that, suspensions, body/head show, roller derby, people I have to interview, articles I have to write and a lot more.
I've saved maybe the most exciting news for last!
I finally did it guys! I opened up a clips4sale store!
Checkit out!
clips4sale.com/77669
Ther'es ALL kinda of clips, lots of foot stuff, some never befopre released footage from the archives of bellavendetta.com, ignore fetish videos, dildo videos, financial domination, behind the scenes from photoshoots, pissing into a lake, clown porn DP with corndogs... Really, all sorts of stuff, check it out, show Me some love
You guys have all been bugging Me to do this forever so put ya money where ya mouth is and show some support for the birthday girl!
In other news: I've been pretty active on niteflirt, so check out all the different hotlines I have set up here:
www.niteflirt.com
AND: I have a NEW WEBSITE for Pro Domme work where you can finally see ALL the info you need to know about booking a session with Me:
www.MistressBellaVendetta.com
that's all for now folks, I'll check in with news and photos from My various trips!
Feel free to send Me some love from My wishlist: http://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/FOUNWAR05H7K/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_ws_H27itb15VM3BT
I really need some new clothes! Ya know, like stuff I can wear to the grocery store, not stuff to wear on porno sets. I've put priorities and comments on a lot of things!