Help!
OK guys, I need some counseling....
Dwayne's 18th birthday is coming up. He has always said that he wants to go to a strip club for his 18th birthday. He says that he wants me to go too. He says that it isn't about the girls, it is a guy thing, sort of like a tradition.
My thoughts on this are that when you go to a strip club, reguardless of what you say, you are going to see titties and ass. and when he sees these naked girls he is going to get turned on.... that means that he wants to have sex with another girl. That pisses me off so badly that i could scream. I dont go around looking at other guys, and quite frankly i just don't think that it is fair to me. He has a perfectly fine FIANCE at home, who he can do anything that those stupid whores can do.... and it just makes me so mad that he wants to go.
Should I be taking it this way? I mean I am taking this pretty hard. I get so mad and I wish that it would just not bother me. I wish that i could just not care. but i do.
On the other hand i was thinking i could just try to not let it bother me and i could go with him and dance with the girls. but what am i supposed to do if he gets turned on? i mean it is going to break my heart....
please feel free to comment. I'm open to constructive criticism.
Dwayne's 18th birthday is coming up. He has always said that he wants to go to a strip club for his 18th birthday. He says that he wants me to go too. He says that it isn't about the girls, it is a guy thing, sort of like a tradition.
My thoughts on this are that when you go to a strip club, reguardless of what you say, you are going to see titties and ass. and when he sees these naked girls he is going to get turned on.... that means that he wants to have sex with another girl. That pisses me off so badly that i could scream. I dont go around looking at other guys, and quite frankly i just don't think that it is fair to me. He has a perfectly fine FIANCE at home, who he can do anything that those stupid whores can do.... and it just makes me so mad that he wants to go.
Should I be taking it this way? I mean I am taking this pretty hard. I get so mad and I wish that it would just not bother me. I wish that i could just not care. but i do.
On the other hand i was thinking i could just try to not let it bother me and i could go with him and dance with the girls. but what am i supposed to do if he gets turned on? i mean it is going to break my heart....
please feel free to comment. I'm open to constructive criticism.