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So, there is this guy at work...
He started working my house a couple months ago. He has been nothing but consistant with pronouns and interacts with me in the same way he does with the other guys at the house.
Great huh? Too bad it's making me crazy. I have NO IDEA if I'm really passing so well that he doesn't know, or if he knows and is just beyond polite and comforatable around trans people.
The case for he knows:
He's a big old counterculture punk hairdresser, so it's pretty possible he's been exposed and just doesn't care.
Also, I don't think pass all that well, and I never bind at work.
The case for I'm passing like a mo fo:
He kinda lacks a boundary, so it's hard to belive he wouldn't bring it up. Also, he's just so damn consistant, the male to male pattern of interaction is all there.
He started working my house a couple months ago. He has been nothing but consistant with pronouns and interacts with me in the same way he does with the other guys at the house.
Great huh? Too bad it's making me crazy. I have NO IDEA if I'm really passing so well that he doesn't know, or if he knows and is just beyond polite and comforatable around trans people.
The case for he knows:
He's a big old counterculture punk hairdresser, so it's pretty possible he's been exposed and just doesn't care.
Also, I don't think pass all that well, and I never bind at work.
The case for I'm passing like a mo fo:
He kinda lacks a boundary, so it's hard to belive he wouldn't bring it up. Also, he's just so damn consistant, the male to male pattern of interaction is all there.