Hey hon, I know we haven't really talked in like years.. lol But seriously, you are an amazing girl, and oh so friggen gorgeous too. Take it from someone a little bit older and a couple years more wiser... it's NOT worth it to go back. I know that when you look at him you see the guy he used to be... the guy he was when you first started dating... but if he's not that guy anymore, he'll never be that guy again. Things ALWAYS get worse, no matter what anyone tells you. And if he tells you he doesn't want to be with you, but then sees you with someone else and all of a sudden wants you back... it means he doesn't want to be with you, he just doesn't want anyone else to have you either... which in turn means, he won't treat you better if you do end up going back. When guys get comfortable in relationships, they slowly turn into who they really are. Guys always make you the happiest ever when you first start dating them, but after they know you love them and would do anything for them, they don't have to pretend anymore. I know I'm not a close friend or anything, but I hope you at least think about what I'm saying. You don't deserve to be treated shitty. You're a great girl, and you deserve an amazing guy.
But seriously, you are an amazing girl, and oh so friggen gorgeous too. Take it from someone a little bit older and a couple years more wiser... it's NOT worth it to go back.
I know that when you look at him you see the guy he used to be... the guy he was when you first started dating... but if he's not that guy anymore, he'll never be that guy again. Things ALWAYS get worse, no matter what anyone tells you. And if he tells you he doesn't want to be with you, but then sees you with someone else and all of a sudden wants you back... it means he doesn't want to be with you, he just doesn't want anyone else to have you either... which in turn means, he won't treat you better if you do end up going back. When guys get comfortable in relationships, they slowly turn into who they really are. Guys always make you the happiest ever when you first start dating them, but after they know you love them and would do anything for them, they don't have to pretend anymore. I know I'm not a close friend or anything, but I hope you at least think about what I'm saying. You don't deserve to be treated shitty. You're a great girl, and you deserve an amazing guy.
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