Love makes me think funny thoughts..
Eh, my not so favorite holiday is a week away. Well less than a week really. And for the first time ever, I'm not dreading it. More like looking forward to it actually. Not that I think anything spectacular will happen or anything, but at least I finally have someone special to me to share it with this year (I think, we havent exactly made plans,
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1. If he hasn't made an issue out of Liv, there isn't an issue. If there was an issue, he would have already demonstrated to you that there was one. Let sleeping dogs lie. This is something to bring up when he proposes or something.
2. If you go asking him how he feels about the relationship, you may appear to be pressuring him, and will only let yourself down when he says, "It's good." and leaves it at that, because as a woman, you want him to gush his heart out and tell you how much in love with you he is. Men do not do this. Do not, I repeat, do not push him for feelings at this stage or you will appear desperate or a basket case that constantly needs reassurance. Trust me on this.
3. He may be wondering the same thing that you are, but out of fear of sounding like a desperate basket case who needs reasurrance, he is holding back until the relationship proves on its own where it stands. You are still in this at an early stage, so stop being the typical neurotic Sarah, and relax! Take things as they come, and if after 6 months or so, the questions you have haven't been answered by the obvious, then you either need to ask him, or run.
Seriously, relax and enjoy his company. If he has enjoyed a naked cheeto Sunday with you, he isn't going anywhere.
Mike
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Anyway, I finally talked to him about it..well not really, he read it on myspace and responded, and it was definitely a great answer, so I'm done with the questioning for now. I just needed a little clarification a some things and now that I have it, I feel much better. Everything is really really great.
Anyway, how the hell are you? I've tried sending you messages on yahoo but can never get you to talk goofball..whats up with that?
Hope to talk to you soon.
xoxo
Sarah
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