Apr 09, 2005 18:57
As I have told Will back in the day and probably some other people.. I know what I want in a relationship. I know I'm holding myself back if I don't have these.
I want to be married within the next 3 years. If I'm not married by than I'll consider myself a failure.
I would like to be happily in love with a family by this time.
I would like to have a steady career ( not job ) by than.
I would like my significant other to have the same.
I would like for my significant other to be there to listen to my every thoughts. Not shut me out. I am one who can't keep anything in. But all my close friends already know that.
I like attention in public. I like people knowing "This is my boyfriend and I'm showing him off"
I like living with my significant other. But I hate feeling like "I'm supporting them"
I want someone to cook for me. Since I cant cook.
I want someone to wake ME up in the morning and tell me "Good Morning Sunshine"... or my old favorite "Wakey Wakey, Eggs and Bacey"
I want someone to fully trust me. Who cares if I'm a flirt? Do you see me all over someone? Or kissing up on them? Or actually being with them? No. Fucking trust me! God damn!
I want someone to go shopping with me and choose things for me. I usually end up cherishing those things a lot more than if I had picked them out.
I want us to have a song, a place, and a thing that is JUST ours!
I want someone to always be there to hold my hand or kiss my cheek.
I want someone to say "It's ok.. I will always be there to take care of you"... and actually do that. Only one person besides my parents has even remotely reached that point.
I want someone to drive me places. So I can sit in the passenger seat and admire what's around..
I want someone to come home to me and say "How was your day dear?"
I want to go out and do things.
I want someone who won't be scared to meet my friends. My friends are everything to me..well the ones I have left, and I get so bothered when I let them slip away.
I want someone who has decent priorities.
God, is my list too hard to go by?