Day Seven Rants
I'll admit it; I like boys. There are exactly three ways to get to my heart: make me laugh, good music, and ___. Asking me about my art, dance specifically, will strike up strong conversation on my part. It's the best way to get to know more about me. If you are an artist, I will ask to view your work. Saying you are a dancer does not impress me. I will not date someone in the same profession as I; it adds an element of competition that places stress on the relationship. I live my life by intuition. I will however, teach you salsa or force you to do lifts with me in the kitchen while we're making dinner together. If you like wierd or creative girls, just come out and tell me. I am both of those. Talk to me, build a good friendship. I will not date you if I don't know you well or get along as friends. Think of something interesting to do when we hang out; let's rent some movies and pick up pizza, go around the city with our cameras, or body paint are all things I've suggested to guys [note that I was also turned down]. I have tons of energy - can you keep up with me? Show your affection. The most I ask for is your time. There is a difference between hot and beautiful. I suggest you learn it. Tell me when I look especially pretty. The quickest way to annoy me is to constantly bring up sex. As if I don't already feel I'm only good for a hot body, that would confirm it. Listen. I love surprises. I don't lie, i.e. I won't say I care for you and not mean it. Don't hide. Be completely blunt and honest. I hate guys that play games or will not just say things straight out. Support my decisions and encourage my dreams, no matter how impractical. Love me for my imperfections. Realize most guys are JUST FRIENDS. In other words, don't be jealous. If I wanted to date them, I would date them. But I'm with you - that says something strong. Never think I'm being held in the relationship. If I wanted to dump you, I'd just do it. Stop means STOP, no means NO. Talk - be honest and open. I'm not judging you; don't do it to me. Know my priorities: dance will always come before you. Don't be scared to show your affection in public, but don't overdo it. Be clever, even if I don't catch on. Be patient when explaining your wit to me. You must be intelligent; I cannot tolerate dumb people. Make me feel beautiful for who I am. Have a passion. Respect me, force me to respect you. Yes, that is a challenge. Always be YOURSELF.