in honor of my darling co-worker jake....
you know what I cant stand...
guys that "get rid" of a girl by just ignoring her.... I've seen friends do it, and I always want to smack them upside the head...
Not calling a girl after meeting her and hanging out with her that night, thats ok...
Not calling a girl after you've been dating for a few weeks with out there being some sorta of noticable reason, like a fight or something, not ok...
I have a problem with this because I am the type of person that will give another person the "benefit of the doubt" that they are busy or something much longer then I should... And I dont do it because I get hung up on people or anything, but just because I like to give people a chance if there is any hope for them. I would be perfectly fine if aaron called me tommorrow and said he didnt want to continue dating for whatever reason despite how much I do like him, but I would be a horrible mess for two weeks if he ignored me and basicly quit being in communication.
I've most likely crushed dozens of young hearts by telling them I just wasnt feeling it after a few weeks or a couple "dates", but I bet they all liked my upfrontness much better then if I had just ignored them untill they "got the hint" and quit trying....
blah.....
speaking of which I havent heard from aaron in a handful of days... normally this wouldnt really bother me, but talking to a coworker about how he is just hoping "this chick gets the hint soon", makes me reflect on my position with aaron.... I assume he's been busy working because I think he said something about his boss being on vacation this week (=more work for him), but who knows..... hmmm....
guys that "get rid" of a girl by just ignoring her.... I've seen friends do it, and I always want to smack them upside the head...
Not calling a girl after meeting her and hanging out with her that night, thats ok...
Not calling a girl after you've been dating for a few weeks with out there being some sorta of noticable reason, like a fight or something, not ok...
I have a problem with this because I am the type of person that will give another person the "benefit of the doubt" that they are busy or something much longer then I should... And I dont do it because I get hung up on people or anything, but just because I like to give people a chance if there is any hope for them. I would be perfectly fine if aaron called me tommorrow and said he didnt want to continue dating for whatever reason despite how much I do like him, but I would be a horrible mess for two weeks if he ignored me and basicly quit being in communication.
I've most likely crushed dozens of young hearts by telling them I just wasnt feeling it after a few weeks or a couple "dates", but I bet they all liked my upfrontness much better then if I had just ignored them untill they "got the hint" and quit trying....
blah.....
speaking of which I havent heard from aaron in a handful of days... normally this wouldnt really bother me, but talking to a coworker about how he is just hoping "this chick gets the hint soon", makes me reflect on my position with aaron.... I assume he's been busy working because I think he said something about his boss being on vacation this week (=more work for him), but who knows..... hmmm....