Unwritten Law of the Gays
It is no secret that Madison and I do threesomes. It has been great! You get the wonderful parts of being in a relationship with someone that you truly love but you also get to hold on to the excitement of new adventures without feeling guilty- and you can share those adventures with the one that you love.
A few months ago we had a threesome with a guy who we know who I will call J. He was a friend of ours. His boyfriend was someone that I absolutely hated and honestly, I had a personal vendetta against. It is wrong to have sex with someone who is in a relationship- but I did it anyway because of lust and because of hate. It was only after this encounter Madison and I learned how bad the relationship between these two was... The boyfriend was heavily suspicious of J- as he should have been. He infact, suspected something the night the threesome happened. I remember putting J's pants on him with his dick waving in my face as he screamed at this boyfriend over the phone declaring that he would never cheat on him. I started to feel bad at this point. J talked about how horrible his boyfriend was and clearly made up alot of hateful things about him- he talked about how crazy his boyfriend was- Crazy because he constantly thought J was cheating on him, (he had a valid reason to feel that way). J made fun of his boyfriend behind his back and made him look like a fool in front of madison and me and others- all the while cheating on him.
Over the next couple of months the boyfriend became more and more insecure. He was a broken human who was constantly worried about J cheating on him or lying to him. The other night as we witnessed the two hatefully attack each other publicly on myspace, madison thought that we should tell the boyfriend everything that had happened. I thought about how I felt my boyfriend of years cheated on me constantly. I remember how I felt confused about feeling something was wrong with our relationship. I remember how I just wanted the truth. The honest truth. I felt bad for having sex with J behind the boyfriend's back- we were definately even for anything he had done to me and I had been vidictive. Madison asked the boyfriend to come to our apartment and we told him the truth. He was upset but did not have a violent reaction.
He went to see J and many things happened. The boyfriend's windshield was broken, somehow, and the whole thing was just really ugly.
A person who knows madison told him today that he broke the unwritten law of the gays. He explained how it was against this law for a gay man to tell another gay man's boyfriend about that gay man's cheating ways.
I don't buy into any of that. There are some secrets that should be kept. The kind of secrets protect people from being embarassed and the type of secrets that when kept deny other people their rights. Some other kind of secrets should never be kept. The kind that protect an evil should NEVER be kept. This is how I feel.
A few months ago we had a threesome with a guy who we know who I will call J. He was a friend of ours. His boyfriend was someone that I absolutely hated and honestly, I had a personal vendetta against. It is wrong to have sex with someone who is in a relationship- but I did it anyway because of lust and because of hate. It was only after this encounter Madison and I learned how bad the relationship between these two was... The boyfriend was heavily suspicious of J- as he should have been. He infact, suspected something the night the threesome happened. I remember putting J's pants on him with his dick waving in my face as he screamed at this boyfriend over the phone declaring that he would never cheat on him. I started to feel bad at this point. J talked about how horrible his boyfriend was and clearly made up alot of hateful things about him- he talked about how crazy his boyfriend was- Crazy because he constantly thought J was cheating on him, (he had a valid reason to feel that way). J made fun of his boyfriend behind his back and made him look like a fool in front of madison and me and others- all the while cheating on him.
Over the next couple of months the boyfriend became more and more insecure. He was a broken human who was constantly worried about J cheating on him or lying to him. The other night as we witnessed the two hatefully attack each other publicly on myspace, madison thought that we should tell the boyfriend everything that had happened. I thought about how I felt my boyfriend of years cheated on me constantly. I remember how I felt confused about feeling something was wrong with our relationship. I remember how I just wanted the truth. The honest truth. I felt bad for having sex with J behind the boyfriend's back- we were definately even for anything he had done to me and I had been vidictive. Madison asked the boyfriend to come to our apartment and we told him the truth. He was upset but did not have a violent reaction.
He went to see J and many things happened. The boyfriend's windshield was broken, somehow, and the whole thing was just really ugly.
A person who knows madison told him today that he broke the unwritten law of the gays. He explained how it was against this law for a gay man to tell another gay man's boyfriend about that gay man's cheating ways.
I don't buy into any of that. There are some secrets that should be kept. The kind of secrets protect people from being embarassed and the type of secrets that when kept deny other people their rights. Some other kind of secrets should never be kept. The kind that protect an evil should NEVER be kept. This is how I feel.