May 16, 2011 17:15
"Because even though u are now living as one, u are still two different people with different wants and needs. What makes it harder is if there's no communication and compromise between the couple. No one says marriage is supposed to be easy but both parties have to be willing to put in 100% of the work to make it last."
"Marriage is actually not hard when you deny your own selfish desires and realize that it is a partnership of give and take. Yes, there are difficult times with trials and temptations but with any aspect of life, it is how you respond during the hard times. It is during these times that your character is refined and makes you who you are... If you just change your perspective on feeling that it is difficult and find JOY in all aspects of it, you will realize that you will have a very successful marriage. don't give up...keep trying."