✌Kinks
LIST ONEAcousticophilia - Aroused by sounds
Actirasty - Exposure to the sun's rays
Agonophilia - Pseudo-rape, pretend struggle or wrestling play as a form of foreplay
Agoraphilia - Sex in public places
Alphmegamia - Older men
Amaurophilia - Partner who is unable to see them during sex, blind/blindfolded sex partner
Antholagnia - Floral scent
Aphephilia - Being touched
Asphyxiophilia - Self-strangulation
Asthenolagnia - Weakness/being humiliated
Belonephilia - Pins/needles/sharp objects
Ecouteurism - Listening to others having sex without permission
Endytophilia - Partners who are clothed
Frotteurism - Rubbing one's genitals against or fondling the body parts of a non-consenting person
Gerontophilia - Partner whose age is that of different generation
Haptephilia - Becoming extremely aroused by being touched
Hypoxyphilia - Sexual arousal from the limiting or withholding of oxygen
Knissophilia - Incense
Kopophilia - Exhaustion
Masochism - Being dominated/humiliated
Mastigophilia - Punishment
Merinthophilia - Being bound
Nyctophilia - Darkness or night
Odaxelagnia - Biting/being bitten
Polyiterophilia - Sex with a series of partners
Psychrocism - Cold/ice
Pygophilia - Contact with the buttocks
Pyrophilia - Fire or its uses in sex play
Rhabdophilia - Being flagellated
Scopophilia - Being stared at oneself
Stigmatophilia - Marking one's own body/inserting foreign objects into it
Tantalolagnia - Teasing
Thlipsosis - Pinching
Triolism - Three-party sex
Tripsolagnophilia - Massage
Vincilagnia - Being tied up
Voyeurism - Watching others have sex
Zelophilia - Jealousy
Zwischenstufe - Person of the same sex
LIST TWOAccidental stimulation
Age differences
Alpha males
Anal penetration with foreign objects
Anal sex
Anal/butt plugs (during sex; worn under clothes in public)
Aphrodisiacs
Asphyxiation
Ass-play and/or fetishization
Attention
Barebacking
Baths and water
BDSM
Beards or stubble
Begging or offering
Big men
Bisexuality
Biting
Blindness
Blood
Blow-jobs
Body-painting or inkbrushing on someone's skin
Bondage
Bottoming
Branding (erotic or non-erotic)
Breath
Bruises and other wounds
Celibacy
Chastity devices
Claiming or establishing ownership
Cock and/or ball torture (whipping, stretching, catheters, etc)
Cock bondage (cock rings; harnesses and straps; leather ropework)
Come-marking (letting it dry visibly on the skin)
Coming in one's pants
Coming without being touched
Cuddling
Cunnilingus
Deep-throating
Delayed gratification
Dildos
Discipline or punishment
Discomfort during sex
Dominance and submission
Erotic torture
Exhibitionism
Exposure
Face-fucking
Face-sitting
Fetishes for objects not listed elsewhere
Finger-fucking
Food
Forced orgasm
Foreplay
Friction or frottage
Friendship and affection
Friendship sex or buddy-sex
Gags
Gentleness
Good boys
Grunge
Guns and gun-play
Hair or fur fetishization
Hand fetishization
Hand-jobs
Happiness
Healing or comfort sex
Heat
Historical and period settings
Hot spots
Humiliation (erotic or non-erotic)
Hurt/comfort
Immobilization and/or helplessness
Imprisonment, erotic
Imprisonment, other
Intercrural or interfemoral sex (i.e., thrusting cock between partner's thighs)
Intimacy
Jewelry
Kissing, necking
Knives and knife-play
Loss of contro
Massage
Master and slave
Masturbation
Messiness and markers of arousal
Military fetishization
Mirrors
Multiple orgasms
Multiple partners
Mummification and/or sensory deprivation
Muscled bodies
Neck fetishization
Nipple play or torture
Noise
Non-consensual or semi-consensual sex
Oral fixation or fetishization
Orgasm denial
Pain (with or without pleasure/endorphins)
Patience
Physical imperfections
Physical responses
Possessiveness or jealousy
Power issues
Prostate pleasure
Protectiveness
Restraint
Restraints
Restraints, full-body
Rimming or tongue-fucking
Ropework (intricate/artistic erotic bondage)
Rough sex
Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck (threesome)
Scars or scarification
Sensory overload or enhancement
Sex in public or semi-public places
Sex in vehicles
Sex is interrupted
Sex on, against, or under furniture
Sex outdoors/outside
Sex standing up
Sex with clothes still on or partly on
Sexual appetite or excess
Sexual frustration
Sexual movements (back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers)
Shower sex
Silence
Sixty-nine
Sleep and bedding themes
Slow and/or prolonged sex
Smiles or laughing
Society
Spanking (over the knee or lap, etc)
Spooning
Striking with implements (whips, belts, riding crops, canes, paddles, etc)
Striptease
Submission (obedience; submissive behaviors such as boot kissing, crawling, keeping one's eyes lowered, or kneeling for master; believing in cultural dictates of submissive behavior; abasement in general)
Swallowing (come)
Swords and sword-play
Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate; aphasia; talking fast; miscommunication and misunderstandings in general; lack of a shared language; see also Silence; Clams; Voice fetishization)
Teasing or tickling
Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)
Top/bottom pairings (also seme/uke)
Touching
Toughness
Toys and devices (sex toys of all kinds; feathers, ice cubes, hot wax, etc)
Trust and vows
Undressing
Urgency for sex
Voice fetishization (cracking or broken; husky, low, throaty; purring; accents; whispering close to someone's ear)
Voyeurism and vision themes
Washing
Weapon fetishization
Well-fucked
Wet dreams or erotic dreams
Actirasty - Exposure to the sun's rays
Agonophilia - Pseudo-rape, pretend struggle or wrestling play as a form of foreplay
Agoraphilia - Sex in public places
Alphmegamia - Older men
Amaurophilia - Partner who is unable to see them during sex, blind/blindfolded sex partner
Antholagnia - Floral scent
Aphephilia - Being touched
Asphyxiophilia - Self-strangulation
Asthenolagnia - Weakness/being humiliated
Belonephilia - Pins/needles/sharp objects
Ecouteurism - Listening to others having sex without permission
Endytophilia - Partners who are clothed
Frotteurism - Rubbing one's genitals against or fondling the body parts of a non-consenting person
Gerontophilia - Partner whose age is that of different generation
Haptephilia - Becoming extremely aroused by being touched
Hypoxyphilia - Sexual arousal from the limiting or withholding of oxygen
Knissophilia - Incense
Kopophilia - Exhaustion
Masochism - Being dominated/humiliated
Mastigophilia - Punishment
Merinthophilia - Being bound
Nyctophilia - Darkness or night
Odaxelagnia - Biting/being bitten
Polyiterophilia - Sex with a series of partners
Psychrocism - Cold/ice
Pygophilia - Contact with the buttocks
Pyrophilia - Fire or its uses in sex play
Rhabdophilia - Being flagellated
Scopophilia - Being stared at oneself
Stigmatophilia - Marking one's own body/inserting foreign objects into it
Tantalolagnia - Teasing
Thlipsosis - Pinching
Triolism - Three-party sex
Tripsolagnophilia - Massage
Vincilagnia - Being tied up
Voyeurism - Watching others have sex
Zelophilia - Jealousy
Zwischenstufe - Person of the same sex
LIST TWOAccidental stimulation
Age differences
Alpha males
Anal penetration with foreign objects
Anal sex
Anal/butt plugs (during sex; worn under clothes in public)
Aphrodisiacs
Asphyxiation
Ass-play and/or fetishization
Attention
Barebacking
Baths and water
BDSM
Beards or stubble
Begging or offering
Big men
Bisexuality
Biting
Blindness
Blood
Blow-jobs
Body-painting or inkbrushing on someone's skin
Bondage
Bottoming
Branding (erotic or non-erotic)
Breath
Bruises and other wounds
Celibacy
Chastity devices
Claiming or establishing ownership
Cock and/or ball torture (whipping, stretching, catheters, etc)
Cock bondage (cock rings; harnesses and straps; leather ropework)
Come-marking (letting it dry visibly on the skin)
Coming in one's pants
Coming without being touched
Cuddling
Cunnilingus
Deep-throating
Delayed gratification
Dildos
Discipline or punishment
Discomfort during sex
Dominance and submission
Erotic torture
Exhibitionism
Exposure
Face-fucking
Face-sitting
Fetishes for objects not listed elsewhere
Finger-fucking
Food
Forced orgasm
Foreplay
Friction or frottage
Friendship and affection
Friendship sex or buddy-sex
Gags
Gentleness
Good boys
Grunge
Guns and gun-play
Hair or fur fetishization
Hand fetishization
Hand-jobs
Happiness
Healing or comfort sex
Heat
Historical and period settings
Hot spots
Humiliation (erotic or non-erotic)
Hurt/comfort
Immobilization and/or helplessness
Imprisonment, erotic
Imprisonment, other
Intercrural or interfemoral sex (i.e., thrusting cock between partner's thighs)
Intimacy
Jewelry
Kissing, necking
Knives and knife-play
Loss of contro
Massage
Master and slave
Masturbation
Messiness and markers of arousal
Military fetishization
Mirrors
Multiple orgasms
Multiple partners
Mummification and/or sensory deprivation
Muscled bodies
Neck fetishization
Nipple play or torture
Noise
Non-consensual or semi-consensual sex
Oral fixation or fetishization
Orgasm denial
Pain (with or without pleasure/endorphins)
Patience
Physical imperfections
Physical responses
Possessiveness or jealousy
Power issues
Prostate pleasure
Protectiveness
Restraint
Restraints
Restraints, full-body
Rimming or tongue-fucking
Ropework (intricate/artistic erotic bondage)
Rough sex
Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck (threesome)
Scars or scarification
Sensory overload or enhancement
Sex in public or semi-public places
Sex in vehicles
Sex is interrupted
Sex on, against, or under furniture
Sex outdoors/outside
Sex standing up
Sex with clothes still on or partly on
Sexual appetite or excess
Sexual frustration
Sexual movements (back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers)
Shower sex
Silence
Sixty-nine
Sleep and bedding themes
Slow and/or prolonged sex
Smiles or laughing
Society
Spanking (over the knee or lap, etc)
Spooning
Striking with implements (whips, belts, riding crops, canes, paddles, etc)
Striptease
Submission (obedience; submissive behaviors such as boot kissing, crawling, keeping one's eyes lowered, or kneeling for master; believing in cultural dictates of submissive behavior; abasement in general)
Swallowing (come)
Swords and sword-play
Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate; aphasia; talking fast; miscommunication and misunderstandings in general; lack of a shared language; see also Silence; Clams; Voice fetishization)
Teasing or tickling
Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)
Top/bottom pairings (also seme/uke)
Touching
Toughness
Toys and devices (sex toys of all kinds; feathers, ice cubes, hot wax, etc)
Trust and vows
Undressing
Urgency for sex
Voice fetishization (cracking or broken; husky, low, throaty; purring; accents; whispering close to someone's ear)
Voyeurism and vision themes
Washing
Weapon fetishization
Well-fucked
Wet dreams or erotic dreams