You are a bit self-absorbed lately. That's the brutal part of the description, you want others to do things for you but don't seem very willing to do something for others. If you're too lazy to make the bed for a guest, that's not very polite. Understandable if it's late, sure, but not something that will make you look charming.
To me it sometimes seems you want to get it all from others, without having to do anything yourself, take an initiative yourself. Maybe you don't even mean it that way, but you do come across that way. You're not truly 'selfish' but a bit self-absorbed: your problems matter, your reality matters, your schedule matters. You want comments on your LJ, you are so happy when you are acknowledged, but how often do you comment on your friends'?
Though it would fit in with the 'autism theory' that you might have a limited perception of the people around you, I'm not sure if autism is the problem. If anything you're slacking off a bit, and expect to be helped with everything, all the while wanting to be taken seriously as a responsible adult. You are an adult. All you need now is to become responsible ;)
You can't change the opinion of others, but you can change the way you behave and come across. While the latter two may not always change the former, not doing anything about the latter two is almost guaranteed not to change the former.
To me it sometimes seems you want to get it all from others, without having to do anything yourself, take an initiative yourself. Maybe you don't even mean it that way, but you do come across that way. You're not truly 'selfish' but a bit self-absorbed: your problems matter, your reality matters, your schedule matters. You want comments on your LJ, you are so happy when you are acknowledged, but how often do you comment on your friends'?
Though it would fit in with the 'autism theory' that you might have a limited perception of the people around you, I'm not sure if autism is the problem. If anything you're slacking off a bit, and expect to be helped with everything, all the while wanting to be taken seriously as a responsible adult. You are an adult. All you need now is to become responsible ;)
You can't change the opinion of others, but you can change the way you behave and come across. While the latter two may not always change the former, not doing anything about the latter two is almost guaranteed not to change the former.
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