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[08:30] Heather: okay this is my take on it
[08:31] Heather: you miss him only bc right now you are feeling really lonely. So you attach to the closet thing that you last had.. Which was Rich. You miss him bc you want someone. You possibly want do want him to like you just because he doesnt. I'm not saying there isn't a chance with you guys again but the way things are youdo need to kind of move forward. Rich says he doesn't want you to talk to him possibly because he is taking the first step for both of you on moving on. Once you find something else to distract you from Rich you will move on...
[08:33] Heather: you can't push yourself upon some one if they do believe that they are wrong for you. If Rich knows (labeling him with common sense) that he treated you poorly and that he would not be good for you at this time and moment you have to except that
[08:33] Heather: it hurts but maybe rich is doing you a good thing
[08:34] Heather: Everyone gets in little ruts like this. Bc you have moments when you pretty mcuh pat yourself on the back bc you don't miss Rich and then you have your moments like this where you miss him and want him and can't seem to live without him.
[08:36] Heather: You are a strong girl and you will get through this and before you and Rich should ever (if you guys start talking again) consider dating again you need to take things down the smart road. Which is just date as friends. Get to know eachother as friend all over again. Have your rules and stick to them. don't let your guard down right away. You will need to TRY to wait for the right moment to let your guard down. Don't be fooled into rushing sex either. That will only hurt you in the end. Believe me I've been through this with Tiffany and Adam
Thats what Heather had to say about the whole Rich/Me thing. Any suggestions?
[08:31] Heather: you miss him only bc right now you are feeling really lonely. So you attach to the closet thing that you last had.. Which was Rich. You miss him bc you want someone. You possibly want do want him to like you just because he doesnt. I'm not saying there isn't a chance with you guys again but the way things are youdo need to kind of move forward. Rich says he doesn't want you to talk to him possibly because he is taking the first step for both of you on moving on. Once you find something else to distract you from Rich you will move on...
[08:33] Heather: you can't push yourself upon some one if they do believe that they are wrong for you. If Rich knows (labeling him with common sense) that he treated you poorly and that he would not be good for you at this time and moment you have to except that
[08:33] Heather: it hurts but maybe rich is doing you a good thing
[08:34] Heather: Everyone gets in little ruts like this. Bc you have moments when you pretty mcuh pat yourself on the back bc you don't miss Rich and then you have your moments like this where you miss him and want him and can't seem to live without him.
[08:36] Heather: You are a strong girl and you will get through this and before you and Rich should ever (if you guys start talking again) consider dating again you need to take things down the smart road. Which is just date as friends. Get to know eachother as friend all over again. Have your rules and stick to them. don't let your guard down right away. You will need to TRY to wait for the right moment to let your guard down. Don't be fooled into rushing sex either. That will only hurt you in the end. Believe me I've been through this with Tiffany and Adam
Thats what Heather had to say about the whole Rich/Me thing. Any suggestions?