I have noticed that if you look carefully at people's eyes the first five seconds they look at you, the truth of their feelings will shine through for just an instant before it flickers away.
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People, in general, would rather die than forgive. It's that hard. If God said in plain language, 'I'm giving you a choice, forgive or die,' a lot of people would go ahead and order their coffin.
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'Weren't you ever in love?' I asked.
'Being in love and getting married, now, that's two different things. I was in love once, of course I was. Nobody should go through life without falling in love.'
'But you didn't love him enough to marry him?'
She smiled at me. 'I loved him enough,' she said. 'I just loved my freedom more.'
-Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees
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