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So. last night I finally snapped on my mom. here is a paraphrasing of the conversation:
M: Hello?
Me: HI! How are you?
M: ok. I'm recovering...
Me: oh, does your back still hurt?
M: no, it feels good.
Me: oh? thats great, but what are you recovering from?
M: I was sick. with an infection.
Me: oh! I hope you are feeling better then.
Yada yada yada
I was just calling you back cause you left a message.
M: yeah I hadn't heard from you or James in a while. have you heard from James? how is he?
Me:...
how is it, that when I call, I ask you how you are, we get three minutes into conversation and you start asking me how my brother is before you ask me how I am?
yeah. I snapped. I was so angry! when she calls she NEVER asks how I am of if I'm ok. ever. its always do this do that hows James, I heard from James, I'm fine, nice to see you. never "I care about how and what you are doing so I will ask."
I called her back like two minutes later to apologize for yelling at her.
I felt really bad. I was crying. and she was like, thats ok, you are stressed.
T__T
M: Hello?
Me: HI! How are you?
M: ok. I'm recovering...
Me: oh, does your back still hurt?
M: no, it feels good.
Me: oh? thats great, but what are you recovering from?
M: I was sick. with an infection.
Me: oh! I hope you are feeling better then.
Yada yada yada
I was just calling you back cause you left a message.
M: yeah I hadn't heard from you or James in a while. have you heard from James? how is he?
Me:...
how is it, that when I call, I ask you how you are, we get three minutes into conversation and you start asking me how my brother is before you ask me how I am?
yeah. I snapped. I was so angry! when she calls she NEVER asks how I am of if I'm ok. ever. its always do this do that hows James, I heard from James, I'm fine, nice to see you. never "I care about how and what you are doing so I will ask."
I called her back like two minutes later to apologize for yelling at her.
I felt really bad. I was crying. and she was like, thats ok, you are stressed.
T__T