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[mstklangel]

Ugh...I hate the male species. Absolutely despise them. I need some advice so heres the story: On my birthday I met Paul out in Fredonia. I unfortunately had a lot to drink and got very sick. As we all know I get cudly when I'm drunk (don't we all) and he took care of me. Not a big deal right? We passed out on his couch...Ok see the big deal here?

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[lilyspark]

Buy the book The Rules by Ellen Fein. It is all you will ever need as far as advice. Men like a challenge. They like to be the pursuers. Next time dont go home with him or be cuddly. Act like you are busy, like you dont care when you see him next. See how his behavior changes.

[mstklangel]

Unfortunately Ril, when I went home with him last I didnt have a choice because I was completely and utterly obliterated (ie. puking in the bathroom at Village for 45 minutes and unable to stand pretty much at all) and you know how everyone gets when they get drunk...they get cudly. And to be completely honest, on Weds I wouldnt even look at him let alone talk to him because I was so mad and I think it just made things unbearably worse. Now he's acting completely standoff-ish and wont even have a conversation with me. He's being a complete asshole and I can't take it anymore, I really feel like I did something wrong and within the next week I will get it out of him. I just hate the male sex in its entirely, want to become lesbians?

[lilyspark]

He does kind of sound like an asshole. Moody guys are the worst. Even if stuff like, improves with him I wouldnt cuddle with him or anything because of how he acts afterwards. I'd say the best tactic is to treat him like crap. He undoubtedly deserves it. Sure, we can be lesbians! I already told Jenn that she and I should get married. We're getting a carvel icecream cake from tops. lol. But you can be that hot affair on the side :)

You should still buy the book. Maybe its too late with this guy, but it has good advice for the next "Paul" that comes along.

Ril