Reply to your "Re: Hm..." comment on your most recent post:fairfignewtonApril 2 2006, 22:15:23 UTC
I didn't mean to imply that you were being sizeist, nor did I think you were a person who would do so (though you are entirely correct, I do not know you very well). I'm sorry if this is how it sounded.
The only thing I disagree with in your reply is that she "allowed" this to be put up. She probably consented and maybe even enjoyed having the video taken, however, the video could have been posted without her consent or even her knowledge. I don't think it's right to assume, then, that she would "do this to herself" without knowing whether or not she truly had anything to say about it's posting.
[An ex-lover, a friend, a stranger who "found" the video on someone else's computer could have posted it, for example, without telling her. This is one reason that not taking such videos or pictures might be a good idea, because regardless of how much she trusted those who had access to it, potentially embarassing photos/videos do "accidentally" get leaked all the time.]
I also see that you have unfriended me, and that this comment can't be posted as a response to the originally post. I don't particularly mind not being friended by you, because I really don't know you all that well and I don't see that we have much in common anymore (this discussion not withstanding). I just would have liked a chance to respond.
The only thing I disagree with in your reply is that she "allowed" this to be put up. She probably consented and maybe even enjoyed having the video taken, however, the video could have been posted without her consent or even her knowledge. I don't think it's right to assume, then, that she would "do this to herself" without knowing whether or not she truly had anything to say about it's posting.
[An ex-lover, a friend, a stranger who "found" the video on someone else's computer could have posted it, for example, without telling her. This is one reason that not taking such videos or pictures might be a good idea, because regardless of how much she trusted those who had access to it, potentially embarassing photos/videos do "accidentally" get leaked all the time.]
I also see that you have unfriended me, and that this comment can't be posted as a response to the originally post. I don't particularly mind not being friended by you, because I really don't know you all that well and I don't see that we have much in common anymore (this discussion not withstanding). I just would have liked a chance to respond.
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