It's called a ladies room for a reason.
I just had a random thought. Maybe the reason why there's so much Pam-hate going around is because last season, we saw Pam through Jim's eyes;she was this quiet, pretty and funny young lady and this girl-friday. Now, that we're seeing Pam without the rose colored glasses and she's-shock-a complex human being, people feel betrayed in some sense. Like, where did that girl from season two go?
Personally, I like seeing the real Pam. Not crush Pam.
(Did this make any sense?)
PS- Remember when Toby didn't find Kelly annoying? Good times, good times.