Just beat It..
disclaimer: long post
I AM SO RILED UP!
It's like the whole Chris Brown and Rihanna incident ALL OVER AGAIN, except this time, it's a localised incident and it happened to someone I really really love... I will not be discussing anything in details, but just to reiterate HOW MUCH I REALLY HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE guys now. You can call me irrational and prejudiced and overgeneralising the entire (bastardly) male population and you can accuse me of being being misandristic.... I seriously do not care. I think the whole different series of events/personal experiences have ignited in me this general sense of disgust. I can't even properly talk to the best friend without feeling pissed or just plain angry in general. Perhaps, dearest Ben, you will be able to understand why? I think it's psychological, how the build up of the bad bad experiences have changed me. I know I am really really passive(?-agressive now.. I feel like the bitch with a really really bad bark now (yes, bad analogy) but I cannot help it.. people cannot understand this, and I can't be arsed to even bother explaining..
I reposted this on my facebook notes applications.. but I do not think now that an education is enough. There are people, people with the financial capability especially who think they can get away with anything. I know it sounds like this comes out of a drama/hollywood, how people are bought off (like the MJ cases supposedly...but not here to start a controversy..) I digress..and how they believe they can get away with most things. IE Chris Brown just because he is a celebrity. It's ridiculous how facts can be twisted by corrupt lawyers and family members alright..and I believe PUNISHMENT, SERIOUS PUNISHMENT that can hurt them-physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, embarrassingly whatever, will make them remember ALL THEIR LIVES THROUGH that to hurt someone, to inflict physical harm on them, regardless of the extent to which the hurt was...is wrong. WRONG WRONG WRONG. I can totally understand Perez Hilton's over-dramatised video on his own violence incident, (love him).. but anyway, what more a guy hitting a girl? Likewise I never believe in a girl hitting a guy, but we are not called the fairer sex for nothing. We are not made up of a lesser percentage of muscles for nothing. We were not carried by our mothers for nine gruelling months for nothing. We were not brought up in a sheltered environment, cared and protected by parents for nothing. We were not brought up thinking we are always loved, we always have family and friends who pamper and care for us FOR NOTHING.
Can you ever imagine the pain, the trauma, the fear the victim must have possessed during that period. It's not merely the shock of the moment, but for at least a long while later, the psychological trauma he/ESPECIALLY she will go through? Please never ever give us bullshit that we made you angry and hence you cannot HELP BUT HIT US.. can we then say, you hit us and hence we could not help but castrate you? It is amusingly laughable what silly AND ridiculous excuses can be used..
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I found the youtube video that could possibly explain the stages in which the guy could go through after he commited that act of violence..HERE or watch the below..well, just go to hell asap ok?
gtfh
I AM SO RILED UP!
It's like the whole Chris Brown and Rihanna incident ALL OVER AGAIN, except this time, it's a localised incident and it happened to someone I really really love... I will not be discussing anything in details, but just to reiterate HOW MUCH I REALLY HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE guys now. You can call me irrational and prejudiced and overgeneralising the entire (bastardly) male population and you can accuse me of being being misandristic.... I seriously do not care. I think the whole different series of events/personal experiences have ignited in me this general sense of disgust. I can't even properly talk to the best friend without feeling pissed or just plain angry in general. Perhaps, dearest Ben, you will be able to understand why? I think it's psychological, how the build up of the bad bad experiences have changed me. I know I am really really passive(?-agressive now.. I feel like the bitch with a really really bad bark now (yes, bad analogy) but I cannot help it.. people cannot understand this, and I can't be arsed to even bother explaining..
I reposted this on my facebook notes applications.. but I do not think now that an education is enough. There are people, people with the financial capability especially who think they can get away with anything. I know it sounds like this comes out of a drama/hollywood, how people are bought off (like the MJ cases supposedly...but not here to start a controversy..) I digress..and how they believe they can get away with most things. IE Chris Brown just because he is a celebrity. It's ridiculous how facts can be twisted by corrupt lawyers and family members alright..and I believe PUNISHMENT, SERIOUS PUNISHMENT that can hurt them-physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, embarrassingly whatever, will make them remember ALL THEIR LIVES THROUGH that to hurt someone, to inflict physical harm on them, regardless of the extent to which the hurt was...is wrong. WRONG WRONG WRONG. I can totally understand Perez Hilton's over-dramatised video on his own violence incident, (love him).. but anyway, what more a guy hitting a girl? Likewise I never believe in a girl hitting a guy, but we are not called the fairer sex for nothing. We are not made up of a lesser percentage of muscles for nothing. We were not carried by our mothers for nine gruelling months for nothing. We were not brought up in a sheltered environment, cared and protected by parents for nothing. We were not brought up thinking we are always loved, we always have family and friends who pamper and care for us FOR NOTHING.
Can you ever imagine the pain, the trauma, the fear the victim must have possessed during that period. It's not merely the shock of the moment, but for at least a long while later, the psychological trauma he/ESPECIALLY she will go through? Please never ever give us bullshit that we made you angry and hence you cannot HELP BUT HIT US.. can we then say, you hit us and hence we could not help but castrate you? It is amusingly laughable what silly AND ridiculous excuses can be used..
~*~*~*~
I found the youtube video that could possibly explain the stages in which the guy could go through after he commited that act of violence..HERE or watch the below..well, just go to hell asap ok?
Click to viewgtfh